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Hot Spots: New Jersey: Which place is best?
By couplefifty on Friday, June 7, 2013 - 11:03 pm:

Which is the best place to find a guy(s) to dance and flirt and maybe more with the wife?

Ruby Lounge in Totowa at the Holiday Inn
Bogart's in Woodbridge at the Hilton
Buona Sera in Red Bank

Or the new Pure at the Holiday Inn Express in Parsippany

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By nj_leg_man on Wednesday, June 12, 2013 - 1:26 pm:

We've never been to Pure so I have no idea what it's like.

Bogart's and Buona Sera are the same stichk except that Buona Sera has a MUCH better class of people. Problem with both of these places is that they are straight night spots and most guys will be reluctant to approach your wife if they see she is with a man. You need to sit her at the bar, go to the mens room and get lost there for a while to give the wolves a chance to gather.

Best bet is Ruby's on the second and fourth Sat of the month. On those nights there is a well known, long time, swingers group that meets there and, because it is a public bar, a lot of single guys, who know about these get togethers, will be there hoping for an opportunity. Because they know that you are probalbly a swinger or at least curious, they will not be hesitant to send over a drink, ask her to dance, strike up a conversation etc.

Good Luck.


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