Wife’s Past and games

Last week I finally got my wife to open up a lot more about her sexual past. She told me of a couple guys I didn’t know about and seemed to be more comfortable talking. I would like to get her to go further and open up even more. Do you guys have any ideas on any games or ideas to get her talking? She’s extremely shy so I kinda have to work into it carefully or she’ll clam up. I’ve tried all the apps out there and they just aren’t very helpful.

I hope someone has some ideas. My wife won’t tell me what we call The Secrets. She said maybe on her deathbed, which tells me there are things to know.

She may have been with some people you don’t really want to know about. She may have done some things she didn’t enjoy and wants to forget and move along. We all been with people we regretted later. And finally what she did in her teens shouldn’t matter. It was all experimental. If she’s taking good care of you now just enjoy and live out your on fantasies between yourselves.

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I got some info out of my wife. She slept around a lot in college and was there for only 3 years. She estimated she slept with "at least 150 guys" during 2 of the 3 years.

She told me some wild stuff (Stripping for frat house, then immediately went into the crowd and gave a dude a BJ right there in front of everyone in the crowd, many MFMs, taking 2 guys home from a bar because neither one would give up on her, and the biggie - She worked as a stripper in a strip club for a year, then later admitted she did some 'bad' things while working there, which turned out to be that she went home with different guys(some repeats) if they paid her enough pretty much every weekend.

She said she made a TON of money working there, was strongly considering dropping out of college to strip full time.

I know there's more, and she's told me, but who knows when/if she'll tell me.

Alcohol helped a lot with getting info out of her.

The only other thing I could think of is if she owes you a HUGE favor. Get some wine in her, and tell her that she 'owes' you , and you wanna know her raunchy past.

Also, if she's embarrassed about it, very gradually start building the fact that you like her wild side into your conversations with her, and that you've always loved wild women - maybe that way she won't feel embarrassed telling you ?

Wife told me all about her past before we got married so I was well informed and didn’t have to pry into her past. Alcohol sounds like a plan to me

She told me everything and I told her I didn't care, the past is the past and doesn't matter. It's here forward that matters to me.

Wife won't tell me anything.
That just made my mind run wild.
Once she said I don't remember, how many before you lose track?
Also said I never slept with anyone that I did not think I was in love with.

My wife's past is a closed book. It's best it remains that way.

Anyway, she/they certainly won't tell you all there is to tell, which will leave you still wondering.

Don't go there.

It wasn't until after 4 years of marriage and after the first time she was shared that my wife opened up about her past. I never would have imagined she did something of the things she did. Im glad she shared her past with me.

I know she had some cocks b4 mine ,talked about one guy eating her ! so not innocent at all .

This is why I said all ladies can have sex with other men as long as there husband do not know.

Alcohol works well.
I'm thankful my wife and I were friends long before dating. I knew her past that go away back to childhood. Then the things she was doing during our friendship.
Best of luck.

After 10 yrs my wife told me things that I wanted to hear. She was 14 and a guy who she was babbysitting for Fucked her the first time. He was 30s . The talk never hurt anything. Ever time we talk about it ends with a wild night of sex.

Wife & me are childhood sweethearts & were both virgins when we were married (actually not as we had indulged in sex before marriage with each other).
In the days when there were no mobiles, I accidentally picked up the extension phone in another room and eaves dropped on her conversation with another man. She was admonishing the other guy for calling her. Naturally, curiousity got the better of me & she also realised that someone had picked up the extension.
Later, she admitted having a brief fling with him when I used to be out of town pursuing my academic career. At that time I was devastated though she convinced me there was absolutely no sex with him .... he would constantly woo her & they would go for movies and some intimate moments in the car. Once we were married, she never met him or talked to him & was surprised how he got her phone number (as it was my home & we had shifted to another city).

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