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By jacobmy on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 6:20 am:

I was a virgin. My girlfriend felt she had to confess I was not going to be her first. She'd already had two guys fuck her. I asked for details and was hooked for life...

By maninstreet on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 6:43 am:

My first wife would tell about her's also
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By 60sxy on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 7:22 am:

Penthouse and gallery magazine. Reading about a woman taking on 2 guys always got me hot. And still does!!

By weluvmmf on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 8:21 am:

Like most of us horn-dog guys, I have always enjoyed watching porn. Watching some woman trying to swallow a huge dong then getting plowed by it always made my mast rise.
When she was finally shared for the first time and I got to watch the love of my life in the same situation, I realized how infinitely much hotter it was that the woman I loved was my own private porn star!
Luckily, I had a security cam in the bedroom (in plain view, not hidden), and have it all recorded for prosperity, and I get to re-live it all over and over again!

By caspertg on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 8:34 am:

First wife was a virgin and second wife was a self confessed slut, I guess I didn’t train the first wife sexually very well. Both were shared but the second wife was so much better sexually but neither were a cuckold relationship.

By extremestephen on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 8:51 am:

My wife was in the Air Force and she went TDY (Temporary Duty) with her unit. She was one of only three females and and over a hundred guys. Needless to say that at night, at the bars she and the other two women were very popular and never paid for a drink. When she got home she told me how much she enjoyed all of the attention she received and wanted more. That was the beginning for us. I was hooked on hearing about her adventures in flirting etc...

By texxasjam on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 9:21 am:

Absolutely nothing hotter than watching your own personal porn star fuck right in front of you.

We love it! It gets us both off, and she loves being used and passed around. I love capturing everything on 4k video for us to watch and enjoy later.

It’s actually made us even hotter for each other, and sent both of our sex drives into overdrive.

By davez on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 10:28 am:

I dont know what the hell turned me on to cuckolding. I was one of those guys that got pissed if I thought someone was anything close to hitting on my wife. Yes, I was quite jealous and probably would have been looking for a divorce lawyer if I thought my wife ever cheated on me. But once we switched partners with another couple things quickly changed.

I had been lusting over a very hot good friend of my wife's for years but would have never pursued her in any way. Then in a very unexpected alcohol and weed crazed evening we ended up playfully teasing, cuddling a bit and surprisingly switching partners with her and her husband.

However for me, the turn on of all that wasnt finally having sex with my wife's friend, it was seeing my wife getting it from her friend's husband. That surprised the hell out of me. But damn I loved seeing my wife getting fucked by him.

After that initial get together broke the ice, the four of us continued to party together including sex with each others spouse. It took some talking but my wife and I both knew we wanted to explore more of this lifestyle, and not just with other couples.

So, in the almost twenty years since that first evening my wife has enjoyed the attention of various other men while I have loved knowing about her exploits and seeing them when possible. I still cannot explain what pulls me or any other man toward that life but I love it, I truly do.

For us it isnt an every weekend thing or whatever, but when an opportunity presents itself we go for it. I guess it isnt for everyone but it works for us.

By atxbim on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 11:25 am:

With the first wife, I was interested in exploring sex with others. Our sex life was great and we did everything two people could do sexually. So I talked to her about other people and looked at the old swingers magazines and met a couple that I got to see my wife making out with and eating the other wife’s pussy, while I slid my cock into the other wife and fucked her good in several positions. The other husband was a big disappointment for my wife so after it was over I felt like I owed my wife a good fuck from another cock.
From there we moved to another town and I kept talking about another cock while we were having sex. We were young and socially active and met lots of different people while out partying. My wife started inviting guys to our house that we met at bars and such. From there the wife was in control. She’d get up to use the bathroom, and return topless. That’s all that was needed for us all to get naked and start playing. Then the wife said she wanted to see the two guys playing with each other. I said no way, but with the next guy we had in bed, she asked the other guy to suck my cock. He said he’d never done that but if she would help, he would. I got a double bj, then we both fucked her. When it was over he said that sucking cock wasn’t bad.
Well, 30 years later and now on wife number 2, she doesn’t play much with others but doesn’t mind when I find a guy who’s cock I want suck and swallow.

By campechecpl on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 12:18 pm:

Always have liked the idea of sharing her with another guy shortly after we met, she told me a story. During her junior year in college at UT Arlington, she met a boy at Billy Bobs, a big C&W dance hall in Fort Worth. He took her back to his apartment and while they were playing, she noticed another guy standing at the door to his bedroom. Her boy said he's ok he's my younger twin. She got so turned on that she asked him if he wanted to join, that was her first MFM and she loved it and so she and I started it shortly after meeting and have been doing that for 36 years that we've been married. I enjoy watching her with other men as well as joining in on the fun.

By lsflower69 on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 1:33 pm:

Just because I have a small useless cock doesn't mean my wife shouldn't be allowed to have better

By sabrej on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 5:23 pm:

For me, it was watching her dance with other guys and seeing them grope her, and hearing about her absolutely slutty history in college.

About 5 years after marriage, and quite a few drinks one night, she admitted to me she slept with about 150 guys during the 3 years in college, had many MFMs, stripped for a frat house one night down to her panties. She did it as part of a bet, and didn't have to take her bra off, but she did after all of guys chanted for her to 'take it off'. She said right after that she gave a dude a BJ, then went into a bedroom with 2 guys who took turns fucking her despite having 2 of her sorority sisters knocking on the locked bedroom because they thought they needed to 'rescue' her.

She also stripped at a strip club for a year during college, made a 'boatload' of money as she said, and took large amounts of money to go home with guys at least once every weekend, which was the only time she worked at the strip club.

We started going out to bars and clubs "late in the game" since we had our kids so young (in our very early 20's) and had our first kid 6 months after marriage. Our kids were in their teens when we started going out a lot downtown.

I could tell my wife loved sex even before I asked her out. A couple of years after marriage, she admitted to me that she was dating and fucking 2 other guys before she fell in love w/me. She didn't give me any timing on that tho !

Then after about 18 years of marriage, we started hitting the dance clubs about 2-3 times a month in Seattle. She was in her very late 30's, in fantastic shape from eating like a bird and working out, and she got a set of D's. She looked better than most of the 20-somethings we saw when going out. Most every club in Seattle let us go ahead of the line. That even worked in Vegas a couple of times, but not every time.

I didn't like to dance, so we danced one dance, then I'd let her dance with other guys. For the first few times, I stayed with her, and she just went out dancing and immediately had guys dancing with her. Later, after our dance, I'd get us drinks, or go to the bathroom, and on my way back to our spot, every single time there were one or 2 dudes chatting her up. In the beginning of us going out, I'd go back to her, and the guys would practically run away.

As we went out more and more, one night I smartened up and figured I'd just 'hang back' on the way back to her, and look from afar. Sure enough, she had 2 guys right in front of her chatting her up, and they already had a drink for her, then she'd go dance with them, and I wouldn't see much of her for a couple or few hours. I always tried to see her, but obviously couldn't the entire time. In the swankier clubs, she'd get invited to guys' VIP areas and who knows what she did with them, but she's always only told me 'she had a lot of fun and the guys were so sweet'.

So most every time we'd go out dancing, including when we went to clubs in Vegas, we had that same pattern - we'd have our first dance together for maybe about 2 songs, I'd tell her my knee hurt or I had to pee, so we'd get off the dance floor and she'd wait for me somewhere while I went to the bathroom and/or got us drinks from the bar. Literally every single time of the hundreds of times we went out, she had 1 or 2 guys chatting with her, while I'd hang back and just wait for her to leave with them, which happened about 80% of the time. She didn't leave to go dance with just anyone, especially if they were weird.

Many times I'd see her, she had hands on her a$$, and when she danced with 2 handsy guys, she feigned moving their arms off her tits, but I figured if it bothered her, she'd have left the dance floor and come over to me, which she never did because of guys' hands on her. For some reason, because of her utter sexiness and the seductive way she danced, and letting guys' hands on her, it was just the most erotic thing I'd ever seen.

I started telling her how hot it was to see her dance with other guys, and she laughed and called me weird. She started wearing sluttier and sluttier outfits, but not so slutty she was desperate looking. She never wore bras or thongs if she wore a sexy top and her jeans. She wore only a thong w/ no bra when she wore a mini-dress. She'd had so many hard cocks and hands rub up against her a$$ it just became a normal thing, and she even told me after a year (after I asked her why she stopped pushing guys away) that it was just something she was so used to, she figured if they weren't too obnoxious, she'd just let them do their thing, and she even let a young dude finger her the 2nd time we went out to a dance club, which was crazy since the guy was 22. I saw them making out, and his hand over her shoulder (he was about 6'5") inside her pants while his friends formed a shield on the dance floor to block the bouncers from seeing what he was doing.

I even witnessed 2 russian guys out with her on the dance floor one night in Miami at Nikki Beach Club. I'd just bought her a really sexy top, that was very open in the front, and opened entirely if it was moderately windy (which we found out walking 2 blocks to the club that night from our hotel). I saw both guys in front of her, but only saw the tops of their heads facing her. She was leaning her head back, with a big satisfied smile on her face, and she stayed like this for about 15 or 20 minutes of the 30 the 3 of them were out there. They all came back, and they invited her back to their place, and she let them down easy but said no to them.

This actually happened before she shared herself. I asked her what happened, and she said they were both sucking her nipples. She said they started out taking turns between one behind her, and the other in front of her playing with her tits, but after a while they started fighting each other, so she brought them both around to her front, and let each one of them 'have' one of her tits, which quieted them down, and she said she wanted to fuck them so badly right there on the dance floor and would have if she could have.

I told her I was OK if she wanted to 'take it further' with any of the guys she danced with, but she told me I was weird, and all of the normal push-back comments.

At the end of the night, she always had guys begging her to go home with them, but she always said 'no'. She'd even told me she'd dance with guys that made her so hot and wet, a few times she said she was 'naughty' and unbuttoned, then unzipped guys' pants, and put her hand inside their underwear on the dance floor and gave the guys a mini hand job and ball caress. She said every time she did it, the guy would just freeze in place, and hold his pants up since she opened them up wide.

So after 4-5 years of this, how could I not get these crazy cuck thoughts inside my head ? I was married to a loving, sexy, slutty former stripper who loved other boys/guys, loved to flirt and be pursued, let them get their hands on her, had her hands inside their jeans a few times, and wow you'd understand me more if you saw her dance. The first think that comes to mind when she dances is that she absolutely loves to fuck, and other guys have told me this many many times after watching her dance.

I could tell she was having a great time being pursued by all of these guys, most of whom were about 15-20 years younger than her. I also kept telling her how 'hot' it was watching her dance and get groped, and a few times I even saw her making out with guys she danced with, it was just so amazingly erotic.

So, 4 long years after I brought up the fact that I'd love to have her fuck other guys, she finally did, and it was with 2 guys she met at Nikki Beach, almost exactly a year after she let the 2 guys suckle her tits at the same place.


So I've chronicled about 20 % of the crazy things my wife's done so far, and I'm happy to have heard from her about the 24 different guys she's slept with, most of whom fucked her alone in our town, or when she was out of town. She may have done more, but she's told me about 24. She usually ghosts them because she doesn't want to get them attached to her, but 3 of them were so good at fucking her, she asked me if it was OK if she had them some more times, which she did. She fucked each one of them about 5 or 8 times.


So for me, it was moderately slow drip of 4-5 years of my wife's sexiness and semi-sluttiness that drove me to want her to cuck me, although I dared not use that term to her.

By product1010 on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 4:06 pm:

Many years back, I go to Military, we had been married few months, to get duty I wanted I had to sign for 3 years instead of two. I come home after 8 moths, first leave. My best friend tells me he thinks she is fucking around, I knew her past, hell I loved her, it was over in my book. I confronted her, she admitted it. She said she needed sex, after 2 days we agreed to have open marriage. She was careful and I was to. We ended up with neighbors, 2 sets we swapped with, if she fucked someone she told me and I liked hearing the details, If I did a gal all the wanted was who and was it better in any way! 50 plus wonderful years!

By sabrej on Wednesday, October 22, 2025 - 10:34 am:

pruduct,

My dad was a COL in the Army so of course we traveled all over.

When I was in HS, our quarters were up on this big hill in when dad was stationed in Alaska. I think my parents were in their 50's at the time.

Only full COL's and the General lived on the hill, and I had a few high school friends there - maybe about 8 houses in total. I also worked at the Officer's Club as a bar back, so I was absolutely loving life. My bedroom was in the basement and it had a window that doubled as a fire escape, so I could easily sneak out of the house, or have girls come over.

There was even a phone in the room, I even snuck out one night after one of my mom's friends in the OWC (officer's wives club) called our house at 2am one night. Most of the men on base were out at a huge training operation for 2 weeks, including my dad and all of the Infantry officers and soldiers. She wanted my mom to come down and join a few ladies having drinks and getting real drunk. I told her my mom was sleeping, so she invited me instead. She was in her mid-20's and was married to an Lt but she was being really flirty with me since she remembered me at my parents house. So I snuck out, walked a few blocks and joined them. Most of the ladies had been to our house for 'Tea's' and other parties.

The girl was super pretty and had a hot body, was really coming on to me, and offered to give me a ride home. She was drunk and could barely drive and the roads were covered with snow/ice. She took me to her quarters and let me fuck her silly - it was amazing for me as an 18yo to bang a 23 year old. I remember she wanted me to eat her out so badly, but I'd only been with 2 or 3 girls by then, and I just could't get myself to eat girls at that time. We would've had a much better time if I didn't have that hangup. I did cum inside her bareback, though.

Just a few years ago, my mom told me that our next door neighbors on that base who had kids in college in the lower 48, had propositioned my mom and dad to do "some nasty, immoral swinging stuff - they were swingers".

My parents were pretty straight laced, aside from drinking a lot at their parties, but they didn't take them up on the offer from the way my mom was talking.

Also, didn't swinging originate in the Air Force or something like that ?

By extremestephen on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 7:56 am:

SaberJ, I have read that the Swinging Lifestyle came to the US via Military Service Members who were returning from being stationed in Europe, primarily in Germany and France. Having been stationed in Germany from 1990-1993, and seeing their less uptight lifestyle about nudity and social interaction, I can easily believe this to be true. After all, that is where my wife and I began the lifestyle.

By nb2435 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 4:11 pm:

My girlfriend right after college was pretty hot.
Huge tits, dirty blonde hair, knew she was stacked and liked showing off her tits. My best friend at the time was always flirting with her. She’d tell me he was always rubbing against her, trying to play footsie and would hug her every chance he got. She told me he’d always press his cock into her when he did. I asked her how she felt about it. She laughed and said, “Well, it feels pretty big actually.” I said no, how do you feel about him always hitting on you? She said, “Honestly, I like it. That’s why I let him do it.” I asked her if she ever had any thoughts about him. She paused for a bit before saying, “Sure, I’d like to know if his cock is as big as it feels and if he knows how to use it.” I started getting hard when she said that and after about a minute, I grabbed her hand and placed it on my cock, showing her my arousal. She shrieked and said, “Oh my God! That turns you on, doesn’t it?” I said yes, very much so.

Long story short, we talked about it at length and she admitted she’d fuck him in a heartbeat if I’d be ok with it. I said I would be. About 2 weeks later we invited him back to our apartment after a party had ended. He wasn’t sure what to expect but said he’d be there in about 20 minutes.

And the fun began about 25 minutes later…

By extremestephen on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 8:22 am:

nb2435, don't leave us hanging. Tell us the rest of the story. Did she like enjoy the experience. Was his cock as big as she hoped? etc...

By sabrej on Tuesday, October 28, 2025 - 3:46 pm:

extreme,

Thanks for the info ! I didn't know it came from the service members who were in Germany.

Funny you say that. My mom, who's in her mid 80's was telling me about when she was a teenager when she was in Germany with her dad who was stationed there post-WW2.

My mom and her mother had to go back to the states for a few months, and from what she told me they primarily used ocean liners back then as flights were starting to become more common for transatlantic travel.

When they came back, they went to their German home, and it turned out they got back home earlier than expected because there was a frau in the house who turned out to be my Grandfather's little affair 'toy'.

They stayed married, though.


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