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By badgolfertx1 on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 6:42 pm:

Has anyone tried to set their wife up to be hit on at a bar without her knowing it was a set up?
How did it go?

By badgolfertx1 on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 6:44 pm:

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By useheragain on Monday, October 20, 2025 - 7:07 pm:

Yes, and it worked perfectly,she became a shared wife after that night

By poshswingers on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 6:22 am:

Don’t have to worry about that. She does it for herself. She gets hit on practically everywhere we go.

By caspertg on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 8:41 am:

Mine was the same as posh's, she was a man magnet and had the pick of the litter.

By tobusy on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 9:21 am:

I’ve wanted to set her up to be hit on. Problem is, she won’t go to bars etc. She also dresses down going out in public for the most part. I’ve wanted to see her response to a guy who seems really into her

By atxbim on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 10:39 am:

I didn’t have to go through all that with my first wife, there were times when we were out and I told her that she could fuck any guy she wanted that particular night. I remember a night close to her birthday, I told her that, and it just took a few minutes for her to find another guy to bring home with us.

By funtpaguy on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 11:49 am:

I am the same posh, she gets hit on almost every time we go out. The way she dresses and flirts, she attracts attention.

By sabrej on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 12:35 pm:

My wife also gets hit on all the time, but about 13 years ago in Seattle, as soon as the guys knew she was married and saw me, they'd just run away.

So I did set up guys twice who didn't care about her being married. (that doesn't seem to be a problem nowadays)

First one had a full head of hair in his CL ad, but when he showed up, he was bald and obnoxious. My wife was already dancing with another guy at the club, and our plan was to pretend he was a fellow motorcycle rider I'd ridden with. She made it very clear she wasn't interested in him, but the dude wouldn't take the hint - he had this in his brain (no thanks to me) that he was just gonna show up and take her home. After 30 minutes of him awkwardly hanging around us (me, my wife, and 2 other guys who latched onto her who she'd been dancing with) I pulled him aside and told him it just wasn't going to happen - she's not into you, and finally he left.

The other one was when we visited San Jose on a trip. The dude was crashing and burning with her, she didn't like him, and he totally ratted me out and lied and said that it was a sure thing and that I told him she'd sleep with him. Needless to say she was incensed at me, and it set me about 6 months behind in trying to get her to be with someone. She hadn't shared herself at this point.

Finally she started fucking guys on her own during out of town trips - she'd meet them at a bar/club and let them fuck her in her hotel room, and let co-workers from different offices fuck her during these trips. One time I went on one of these work trips (MLM meeting) with her, and she brought a long-time married friend of hers who lusted after her for 10 years to our room while his cute, in-shape wife (she was kinda mean to him) slept in their hotel room. I was in the bed sleeping when they came back, and I liked that my wife didn't even bother to try to wake me up and kick me out of the bed for them - they just went into the bathroom and he fucked her doggie over the sink and I heard them because they woke me up. I thought it was funny as hell.

Then I just started taking her to clubs, bars, and often we'd go to breastaurants like Twin Peaks or Tilted Kilt. I loved to check out the cute waitresses while my wife would always get invited or playfully kidnapped by guys sitting at tables or who were playing pool. It was funny, she'd stand near the pool tables and watch dudes play, and every single time, they'd just stop the playing in the middle of the game and invite her to play with them.

If she met the right guy or guys, she'd accept their invites to have a drink at their place, fuck them, and call me the next morning to pick her up, or one time we gave a guy a ride home, and he ended fucking her after I fucked her and fell asleep. I woke up a few times to go to the bathroom or get water, and he was still pounding away furiously fucking my wife in his bed.



tobusy,

It's too bad your wife won't go the bars. How about if you ask her to go out and play pool with her ? There are big pool places that happen to have bars, and if you go to a place that plays with paying via Quarters (as opposed to reserving a pool table), those are really interactive with other people.

Or just tell her you want to just play pool and maybe have a little bite to eat, and go to a bar with a pool table.

My wife and I know how intimidating it is to walk into a bar for the first time, but once we did we got used to it, made friends, and eventually all of the regulars found out that they could flirt with my wife as much as they wanted, and I'd do absolutely nothing about it. Word spread fast, and while she didn't sleep with any from this neighborhood bar, one took her to a strip club for his birthday where my wife gave him a hand job during a private dance, she made out with a few guys out on the smoking patio at the bar, she felt a guys cock and balls one night after a year of him bragging to her about his package (one night during a pool tournament that everyone was looking at, she slipped her hands inside his gym shorts and played with his cock and balls for about 10 minutes, and told him 'you're right'), and she let a dude we drove home one night slide his hands inside her bra-less top and play with her tits) .

Or you could find one of those new fancy bowling alleys that also have a bar.

Or go to a restaurant that has a bar.

It took me literally 4 years of going out before my wife started sharing herself, and all of the guys hitting on her made her have a lot of fun. Sure, she's more of a boy's girl that a girl's girl so that really helps - she'd much rather hang around groups of dudes that girls.

So if I were you, use any excuse to get her out and about, maybe start talking about how much you really like a football team in another state that isn't really broadcast on your local TV market/streaming, and tell her you want to watch it but you have to go to XXX bar to watch it since they air all of the games and take her with you.

good luck

By justright4u2 on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 - 6:03 pm:

poshswingers she's so attractive

By dc1972 on Wednesday, October 22, 2025 - 1:42 am:

i tried to set my southg jersey catholic wife up 4 different times with younger good looking and nice guys. she had no idea that i was behind it....she even told me about one of the guys.

but her catholic force field goes up in public, and all 4 attempts went down in flames. She’d kill me if she ever found out that I was behind it.

By campechecpl on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 3:50 pm:

True we live in Galveston and it is a beacb town, but she loves to wear this to our neighborhood dive bar for the attention

By willingnable44 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 4:07 pm:

I try to set my wife up for this type of fun whenever I can.

She loves it. Especially, if the guy is younger hot, nice , funny and good looking. It makes for great foreplay.

It doesn’t always work, but when it does it can make her very very wet

By capemaynjcouple on Sunday, October 26, 2025 - 4:50 am:

I set my wife up in the gyms where she works out.After I get to comfortable with the guys I chat up with.It always works if you know what I mean.


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