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What do you mean, "You are 'Discreet?'
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What do you mean, "You are 'Discreet?'
I just read that many Gay or Bi Sexual men who are not feminized, and don't want to be, (may or may not have anything to do with secrecy), refer to themselves as "Discreet." I see men here all the time, describe themselves as discreet. How widespread is this definition?
Labels like that are ideas and concepts that exist because society collectively agrees they do, rather than being based on inherent, natural, or objective reality.
I am straight as an arrow so I have no idea what gay or bi men mean when they say they are discreet.
In the couples lifestyle world, I have always understood the term "discreet" to mean the man would not kiss and tell, he would not publicize your activity, your secret would be safe with him.
| By caspertg on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 3:50 pm: |
Never heard of it but I don’t travel in those circles either.
samandkim2020 -- "No kiss and tell" is how I always understood it too.
| By doctortits2 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 5:48 pm: |
arky....as you say, they are gay but don't look or act gay...and if you are gay they will not tell...
| By doctortits2 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 5:50 pm: |
arky....I think as you say, they are gay but don't look or act gay...and if you are gay they will not tell...
| By doctortits2 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 5:50 pm: |
arky....I think as you say, they are gay but don't look or act gay...and if you are gay they will not tell...
Yeah yeah doc we got the message the 1st time