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By 9inchnails on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 6:53 pm:

Wifes in menopause before that we were wildly sexually active now we go months without sex and she's dry like hell. Sex is painful for her and we sucks for me cause I keep comparing it to what it used to be but now it sucks does it get better ? What are you guys doing to cope with it ? Now I know why some guys cheat on there wives and I don't wanna do that .

By burgus2 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 7:54 pm:

our sex got better, shes way more open and loves it. its off the charts these days, loving our 60s, never knew it would be so good

By dialedin200 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 8:00 pm:

9inch- cant believe you guys are going through that. I remember your videos well. Mrs Nail is hot! Unfortunately, i dont have a good answer for you. I have been dealing with what you’re going through for years. At least, when we do have sex, i dont think it’s painful. She just seems to have no interest in sex, unlike me.

Feel free to email if you like. We are 65.

By james5757 on Thursday, October 23, 2025 - 11:40 pm:

Menopause sucks. Same thing happened here and zero sex now. Not fun at all.

By vinigrette on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 3:20 am:

Bio-identical hormone replacement therapy.

Your wife will thank you

By jiminsfv on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 5:08 am:

Men-on-pause for sure!

By texasforlife on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 5:58 am:

My wife quietly went thru that about 10 years ago. Sex never slowed down, but she started getting dry. She asked the doctor about it. The doc told her to give it some time and if things don't improve she'll give her some meds. We waited and the doc was right. My wife is in her 60's now and her pussy gets very very wet without meds. I suggest your wife talk to her gyn doctor. Don't cheat on her. It's a medical condition that can be treated.

By bonefang2 on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 6:17 am:

Slammed the wall 8 years ago. It wasn't very good for a couple of years prior.

By abacus100 on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 6:23 am:

It’s a Medical condition that can only be treated if she wants to treat it.
Without wishing to sound too harsh I think for a lot of women it is very convenient not to treat it. I know I’ll get slaughtered for that comment but it’s m experience..... not just in my own marriage and subsequent relationships after divorce but in listening to women chat.
I’m not long out of a 4 year relationship because the menopause kicked in not long after we met. I tried hard to weather the storms as did she but both decided to call it quits.

One of the hardest challenges of dating at my age is finding someone of similar age who is not going through this condition.

By guzzilover on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 10:27 am:

I was lucky. My wife went through about a 2 year window where sex was not even a consideration because of pain and dryness. Lubricants helped for only a short time and she quickly became sore. Luckily she started to naturally lubricate again and her desire also returned. She became hotter than before and we had a great sex life. Email welcome

By mikewurlitzer on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 1:00 pm:

abacus100 nailed the problem perfectly. She has to want it. If not she'll never even give it a try. 8+ years with ZERO sex here after 10 years of virtually anything goes.

By chippytom on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 2:05 pm:

Just like burgus said above. My wife got more hornier and kinkier...

By stud13 on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 3:34 pm:

Nails,

take up golf.

By trashy1 on Friday, October 24, 2025 - 4:54 pm:

My wife shut down the fun after she went thru menopause. No action in 13+ years. Now she has prolapsed bladder issue so it is not getting any better. The stage of her condition, the only viable treatment is to sew up the kitty and leave only 1 inch of depth and barely a finger opening. So basically she has to say absolutely no more intercourse. Also lost all interest in any sex.

By dunelovera on Sunday, October 26, 2025 - 6:48 pm:

Trashed find a good surgeon my wife had a prolapsed bladder fixed and she’s good as new

By sassy59 on Wednesday, October 29, 2025 - 8:06 am:

guzzilover, I and probably others would like to know what she did to make it better. We're there now and it's not nice!


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