First MFM

Describe what happened in your first MFM?
How did you convince your wife?
Did you go all the way or held back at some stage?
As the hubby what sort of emotions did you feel when you saw another person get passionate with your wife?
Did you involve yourself or just watch?
Did your wife enjoy it or chickened out at some stage?
Once the third person left, what pillow talk did you have with your wife? Did she say she liked it / loved it OR I just did it for you OR showed guilt feelings / loved it and took it as duck would take to water & agreed to further partake in future adventures.
Was there shame / remorse after the act or fulfillment and pleasure.
As hubby, was it a turn on for you or you felt neglected or you felt wtf have I gotten myself into?
Did the act change your relationship with your wife - for better or for worse.
Anything else you would like to comment upon.

Also, would love to hear the experience of ladies on the subject matter of their first experience.

Thought it best not to post in this thread for a couple reasons. So I sent you an email.

Describe what happened in your first MFM?
a guy, much older (could really be her father) replied to an image I posted on WL. She got turned on and told me to invite him for a meet and greet. It turned into a meet and fuck.


How did you convince your wife?
I didn't have too. She is very sexual and open minded. We started as a full swap couple, 5 months into out relationship.


Did you go all the way or held back at some stage?
All the way

As the hubby what sort of emotions did you feel when you saw another person get passionate with your wife?
Excited emotions
Did you involve yourself or just watch?
Started to watch then joined in

Did your wife enjoy it or chickened out at some stage?
She enjoyed it.

Once the third person left, what pillow talk did you have with your wife?
Slutty talk while my cock slipped into her used, cum filled cunt.

Did she say she liked it / loved it OR I just did it for you OR showed guilt feelings / loved it and took it as duck would take to water & agreed to further partake in future adventures.
Sure loved it and wanted more.

Was there shame / remorse after the act or fulfillment and pleasure.
All pleasure

As hubby, was it a turn on for you or you felt neglected or you felt wtf have I gotten myself into?
Big turn on.

Did the act change your relationship with your wife - for better or for worse.
Our relationship was strong already and led us down the path of marriage. We continued swinging but not at much as we want due to life

Ditto

To long to post here. Send me email if ya like to hear

I’ve posted my experiences many times and I wish I would have saved a copy now. I remember doing mfm with both wives for the first time and had nothing but positive results which led to many more of them.

1st time story in wife storys

What happened to jjhardy, caspertg? Hard to believe you got banned, I've never seen you write anything banworthy....

Before I answer I’d like to know
More about you. Are you married? What is your age? Her age? Are you planning to be the husband or the other Male?

tjg13,

OMG, she looks damn sexy and sounds like a really fun woman! Understand about life, wife and I are trying to get back into it more.

I have received 17 emails describing their experience on this post. So I started penning down our first experience too. I guess it's tame for WL but exactly how it happened. So penning down first part.

How did you convince your wife? – It took me more than 20 years to convince her. Started off with professional masseurs to give her a massage – semi nude, progressed to her being nude & she would let the masseur be in boxer shorts. Finally, very reluctantly, she agreed for a total nude body to body massage but she was extremely conscious, she orgasmed also but later stated it was too mechanical & lacked passion.
Finally, on a trip abroad I suggested we involve another person (I had been in touch online with a mature gentleman). She agreed to meet him & said no promises & let’s see. I had bought a short black dress for her & made her wear it without anything underneath (pic attached). We met in the evening at a country club. The guy turned out to be a charmer, a perfect gentleman. He flirted with her, made her laugh & we spent the evening drinking and taking turns dancing with her. There was absolutely no mention of any sexual talk. We had dinner together & then ventured to a night club. I could observe from a distance, while dancing with her, he was holding her very close & kissing her neck. When the 3 of us were sitting to take a break, the wife sat close to him & he would nibble her ears and was whispering sweet nothings (I couldn’t hear as the music was very loud) but it made her laugh a lot, his hands roaming on her bare thighs.
He finally dropped us to our hotel in his car with my wife sitting in front with him. When we reached the hotel, my wife was leaning onto him with her baby eyes asking for a kiss & he obliged with a real passionate one which lasted several minutes.
As planned, the gentleman (Jeff) came to our hotel the next day at noon. We went for a short walk around the hotel beach & made small talk. Wife was dressed in a plunging top & short skirt with a thong underneath (pic attached). We invited Jeff to our room & shared a bottle of wine, put on some romantic music & made small talk. Jeff was very sweet & kept on praising how beautiful she looked. Slowly they started kissing, we all undressed eventually & moved to bed. The next hour Jeff who was a certified masseur too massaged her from head to toe, licking every part of her body & bringing her to explosive orgasms. Both of us took turns to kiss her lips, pussy, breasts simultaneously …. Our mission was to give her the time of her life. I eased my cock in her pussy & she started sucking Jeff. After a while Jeff came all over her face & mouth. I kept ploughing her & eventually shot my load in her.
After a brief rest we all moved into the tub and played around a bit more. They showered together & I came out for some fresh air in the balcony. When I came in, she was doing a 69 with Jeff & finally blew him once again.
The wife had agreed to do this without the penetration sex & boundaries were clearly set with Jeff & so it ended on a happy note for all of us.

Did you go all the way or held back at some stage? – Everything other than the final act. We had pre decided on this.

As the hubby what sort of emotions did you feel when you saw another person get passionate with your wife? – A tinge of jealousy at some moments but overall extremely erotic adventure. All in all loved it.

Did you involve yourself or just watch? – Totally involved, though at some stages just watched to soak in the atmosphere & sexual currents.

Did your wife enjoy it or chickened out at some stage? – She absolutely loved it but it took her some time to actually admit it. At that moment she just waived it off as it was an everyday routine & avoided discussion. I wanted to hear from her that she loved every moment & let’s do it again but she kept her comments non-committal.

Once the third person left, what pillow talk did you have with your wife? Did she say she liked it / loved it OR I just did it for you OR showed guilt feelings / loved it and took it as duck would take to water & agreed to further partake in future adventures – No guilt feelings but at the same time no ecstatic feelings, just non-committal ….. probably waiting for my reaction.

Was there shame / remorse after the act or fulfillment and pleasure – No shame / remorse, it was quite pleasurable.

As hubby, was it a turn on for you or you felt neglected or you felt wtf have I gotten myself into – An absolute turn on, to the credit of my wife, she kept me involved at all stages. She gave more or less equal attention to both of us.

Did the act change your relationship with your wife - for better or for worse – Definitely for better though we are still in the process of opening up more.

I took some pictures (without the faces) & if anyone is interested, drop me a mail & will share. They were taken with Jeff's permission as long as I take them without his face.

My wife would agree during sex to meet a strong man as we fantasized. But chicken out two times when a real man showed up. She would panic and not agree. and say: not now, please. So our fantasy remained fantasy. However, during a visit to Spain and close to the Portuguese border {close to Playa de San Bruno beach} there is a long deserted sunny beach. There she did experience her first adventure and was not hesitant. It is mostly deserted but frequented by African immigrants and selling water and sun screen. They are friendly and approach a lonely woman or couple and offer free massage, They are persistent but friendly. Their massage is long that leads to touching some sensitive areas of the female body. Those touches of the body triggers a sensation that leads to a successful approach and fuck. That was what happened to my lady. His massage was long and sensuous and slowly touching her sensitive corners thereby triggering a sexual urge with a strong black man on the beach. Wife did get excited and stay quiet even when he started kissing her thighs. He was not stopped but allowed to go like a wild horse.
So it is a place for shy ladies to let those guys take her wrinkles out.

I’m not gonna answer all the questions, but I’ve done the mfm threesome with each of my two wives. Quite different in the lead up and after feelings, but pretty similar in the actual action. With the first wife there was a lot of talk and fantasizing, and when the time came she pretty much took charge after we sat around talking and waiting just how to get things started. Quite different with the second wife, I guess in part because I had done it before with my first wife. But needless to say, a really hot time for all, in each fuckfest.

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