If You Can't Beat 'Em, Instead of Jerking Off, Join 'Em

I like to think of myself as always being straight with others (pun intended). So, I will just come right out and tell you that I think Man on Man sex should be a respectable choice. If that repulses you, I am sorry, I don’t mean to offend.

My wife is my soulmate and best friend, but she has no interest in sex anymore, and I can’t handle that. On the other hand, I can’t bring myself to cheat on her with another woman; so, I have turned to men. I have been straight all my life, and I still consider myself a heterosexual. That means, if presented with a choice, at a particular time and place, under most circumstances, unless it were a REALLY ugly woman, I would pick the woman.

Not very long ago, I was repulsed by the very thought of touching another man, but through hypnosis, I intentionally taught myself to get over that. I have no regrets.

The reason I started thinking about all this is because, (I may be wrong), but over the years, I have observed that almost ANY woman, can have almost ANY straight man, almost any time she wants. That is certainly not true for men. Is that fair? I have seen many, many men much more attractive than me, go home alone to Mr. Hand. If you close down a busy bar, I predict you will see the women pair off with a man and leave. Finally, there will be three or four men, left drinking alone, and destined to go home alone. To me, the answer seems pretty simple; they should get together and help each other out. If you are not getting enough sex from women, (too much sex is never enough), why not learn to enjoy sex with men?

I am pretty liberal when it comes to sex; I believe sex is sex. I love to eat pussy and have done a lot of it. I don't see how sucking a cock is much different from sucking a clitoris; obviously I can tell the difference. But, on the other hand, it is not so easy to tell the difference between fucking a man’s ass and a woman’s ass. Nor is it so easy to tell the difference between a BJ from a man or a woman. Can a woman really tell whether the tongue in her pussy, belongs to a woman or a man? Two of my favorite quotes are by Woody Allen, who said, "Being Bi-Sexual doubles your chances of having a date on Saturday night." And "Between consenting adults, the only sexual perversion is abstinence."

I would love to hear your comments on these views. You can tell me how sick I am, or that you agree with me. I really want to know.

to each his own. I don't think you have to come here looking for approval because you may get it from some, and others not so much so.

I totally understand your situation. The most important thing is your happiness not what people think.

My thoughts have always been to each their own and I certainly appreciate any man who chases after the cock. Leaves more pussy for the men and women who love it. I also believe you're only trying to convince yourself of you being Bi. Cheating is cheating, regardless of the sex you're having it with and you know it.

Your mental issues are starting to show, however, what texcpl said is correct.

I really don't understand. Either way man or woman would be cheating and lonely women are extremely plentiful.

You need to go to church more than me!!!

How are you in bars at closing time to watch people hook up? Then you choose the last dude? What time do you get home to your wife? She doesn't say anything? She doesn't think you are cheating in some way, shape or form? I don't think you are the one with mental challenges....

My wife and I ALWAYS know where each other are located, what we are doing, and ETA of return... its a safety thing long before its a cheating thing. I smell a tiny bit of B.S. in this story.

BTW just to put my 2 cents in.... I would never cheat on my wife... but if only given the two options... I would jerk off long before picking up strange dudes in a bar at closing time if I was ever in that position in my marriage. I have higher standards for myself.

Suck one cock and you’re a….nevermind…..

Arky...One of the greatest blessings in my life is arriving at the place where I do not care what others think.
Having said that, I've been married close to 40 years and I love my wife. I am completely hetero...meaning, I never want a relationship with a dude. But, through the lifestyle I have found that great looking girls and guys are a huge turn on. Especially if they are very sexually minded. I have shared my views with my wife and at first she was freaked out. Now, she is very turned on by it. At the same time, she is not at that place where she wants to hear about my solo adventures. She's just turned on by my being adventurous.

That’s funny. You don’t want to cheat on her with a woman how do you think she will react when she finds out your sucking cock?

I am pretty much in the same boat as the original poster. Except for the anal part of man sex. Never had that. Another difference is that my first wife was the one that originally encouraged me to explore playing with other men during mfm threesomes.
I’ve told about this before so I won’t again, but I will say that I developed an oral fetish with men and still to this day, I occasionally meet with men, with the approval of my now second wife.

What dh said but I will add that I am perplexed that a woman can completely shut down sexually and be content while depriving her man of the one physical thing that defines him as a man and a husband. Yet she would still act as the gatekeeper of his sexual fulfillment. Albeit the gate is permanently shut. That act alone is not far from her being a shepherd or herdsman and keeping her husband as a domesticated farm animal. To top it off, he needs to keep his mouth shut and still keep his chores done and act if there is nothing amiss in the relationship.

I am living in the same situation, i totally agree with you and look forward to my next adventure. Anyone else who is interested can email me.

A lot of the males in my family have male partners but even though I haven’t been with a woman for over five years I have no desire to suck cock and will patiently wait for the next woman.

arky, atx and dg55, same situation. Open to trying it.

My sex life is almost non-existent at home. Once every month, if I'm lucky, doesn't cut it.
I had a best friend in college who introduced me to M2M sex. I wasn't sure it was something I wanted to try, but I tried it and really enjoyed it.
Today, I have a male fwb I get with and enjoy pleasure. Some like it, some don't, and some will never try it.

lancecindy1 -- Why?

Am I understanding your post correctly, you cannot bring yourself to cheat on your wife with a woman but you can be bi and cheat with a man?

Whatever floats your proverbial boat, my wife just read this with me and said she would rather I cheat with a hot woman than turn bi or gay. LOL

Cheating is cheating, woman, man, sheep, it is all cheating.

But you do you, enjoy.

Mid 70’s here. My sex life is just like when I was 16 !

Hand and porn !

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