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Anticipation when setting a meet up
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Anticipation when setting a meet up
Who else here loves that feeling leading up to the actual meetup? That so excited and so nervous feeling like you might throw up.
Our first experience was spontaneous, so no time to get excited. Prearranged meetings after that were very exciting. The whole thing from the initial agreeing to meet, to choosing clothes to wear, getting prepared, nails, toes, waxing etc, are so exciting. It's all part of the meeting, stomach butterfly and shaky legs. Love it. Although I do enjoy spontaneous hook ups better now.
Getting Butterflies, eh...
| By caspertg on Sunday, October 26, 2025 - 9:14 pm: |
I didn’t set up anything because she did all of that so I was only excited when it happened.
| By kftnnc on Monday, October 27, 2025 - 1:07 am: |
Our first attempts were set-up meetings. The most exciting thing was just knowing that she was willing to meet! In truth, the first 3-4 meets all failed for various reasons....but I would be SO excited just knowing she had finally come to the point she was willing to go out, and meet a guy, knowing that if all went well, she'd have sex with him. (When it finally did happen...amazing).
I got that feeling when the wife started getting ready, from getting dressed all the way to their room. I was so nervous driving over, my wife gave me that look in the elevator like are we really doing this? The nerves calmed down when they opened the door and there stood an attractive couple, telling us how nervous they were waiting for us to come by. Once we started, all nerves went away.
When we first met this couple from Wifelovers we all agreed no sex. Even then, you wonder if it would really happen. The next meeting, no such agreement. The anticipation and desire was strong all day long. That night, the excitement was very intense.
| By rv1980 on Monday, October 27, 2025 - 9:16 am: |
Specifics please. With her interested, a how to manual if you will. Closing with points related to safety precautions, health and otherwise. Thank you.
It took months and months for me to find the right man for her and weed out the oddballs. Once I did, I had months of conversations with him without her knowing. Once he and I set up a meet, I did not tell her about it until about an hour before we were to meet in a bar. I was a nervous wreck all these months and especially when I told her. She had a drink as we waited. We all talked in the bar and she liked him and agreed that she would like to have sex with him. It was marvelous.
| By sabrej on Monday, October 27, 2025 - 12:05 pm: |
I tried 2 meetups and both were disasters, and even set me back months trying to get her to share.
We went out a lot, and my wife always had guys going after her, so having guys who wanted her wasn't an issue. This was in 2003 or so , and every guy at the clubs we went to just ran away when they saw me, her husband with her after he'd danced w/ and felt her up.
So I did some CL ads to find a guy who didn't have a problem with her being married.
First one was a jerk and didn't look close to her pic, and didn't get the hint when she rejected him flat out when we 'bumped into' him at the club. 2nd was when we went to visit San Jose and went to a club. He was striking out big time with her, then got desperate, and lied to my wife, saying that I said she was a sure thing for him and that I 'guaranteed' she'd fuck her. She was SO mad at me, and it took about 6 months to get back to where we were before that night.
So I just kept taking her out and guys always hit on her, and after 4 years, she finally fucked a couple of dudes on a business trip, then back home sometimes we'd go out, and she started leaving clubs with hot guys - not often, but she'd leave with maybe one guy out of 50 who wanted her. She'd then call me the next morning to pick her up.
So not only I wasn't a big fan of set-ups, I simply didn't need to.
In the last 6 years or so, it seems a lot of guys don't care about my wife being married, and some of been so brazen they'll chat her up with me there. She had a good-looking guy run his hands inside her thighs one night while I sat next to her. It was obvious we were together because we walked into the bar together and he was already there sitting at the bar, and I took the bar seat with a space between him and me, forcing her to sit between us.(yes, I did that on purpose to see what/if anything would happen). He immediately started talking to her, and they had a good time yakking it up and flirting, pretty my ignoring me but I was more than OK with it.
When I left them to sit at a table w/a buddy who happened to be at the same place that night, he proceeded to get his hand all the way up her snatch, after she 'involuntarily' spread her legs as she later told me. I laughed at that a little, but it's all good I don't have a leash on her. She actually ended up sleeping with my buddy that night, not the guy at the bar for some reason.