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I would like to hear what some opinions or different views on something that recently happened…my wife and I have been married over 20 years and she really hasn’t been able to go anywhere and be herself because she’s been a mother and wife for years….the opportunity arose for her to go on a girls cruise so she went…before she went she told that there was 3 girls going but they would be riding down to the port with 2 guys who one of the girls was friends with and was I ok with that and I said yes….she said they wouldn’t see them on the cruise only riding down and back together in the rental. Well they ended up hanging out together pretty much the whole cruise together with the 2 guys….so they get into port and one of the girls gets flight home but my wife and the other girl and the two guys stay another night and rent a condo….so the next morning my wife calls and tells me they will be leaving soon and she can’t wait to see me….she doesn’t get home until pretty late in the evening….and I texted and called her a few times thru the day and either wouldn’t get an answer or she answer my texts a few hours later….so she goes to bed because she’s tired…..the next day I was out running a few errands she calls me and we are talking and she tells me that her and one of the guys slept in the bed together but nothing happened….Is this even possible nowadays??? Her reasoning was that I’ve talked to her so long about sharing her and stuff that she felt like this was a good way to get back at me because nothing happened between them…..I want to believe her but at the say time I’m pretty hurt because I kinda feel betrayed….I guess they are a group of 4 now and they are planning another trip sometime and plan on hanging out together more….they went to eat not long along and my wife was looking hot and comes home not wearing panties and tells me she took them off and her way home just to mess with me….Id love to hear some opinions on this….

I think you know what is happening ! Who better to know, than you ?

True….but she swears nothing is going on but I don’t 100% believe her.

Sounds like you have become a Cuck.

Try to have sex with her after she has been out with them. I would think you would be able to tell if she just had sex or not.

If she refuse to have sex with you, that could be a red flag.

I guess it COULD HAPPEN. Does she have sex with you every night? Probably not. However. My opinion is. She had sex with him.

As soon is she said they wouldn't see the guys again on the cruise after they dropped her off is a bunch of BS!!
It was all planned!! But hey just ask her to cum clean!
if you wanted to share her well she's sharing

Sounds like she is having some extracurricular fun and you are having jealousy issues. Take her in for a lie detector test My second wife had a guy over one morning when I was out of town and they played around in our bed but she told me they didn't have sex. She was coming in to join me at the hotel so I went out and bought her new diamond ring to thank her for her honesty and job well done.

Why would she tell you she didn't have sex? And why would you buy her a diamond ring for (apparently) lying to you?

Be putting a little money back she doesn't know about! You're on the back burner. Sorry!!!

There may be a chance, at least anyway, that you have in past talked with her about sharing her with another man. Maybe swapping ?
She may be interested, but reluctant as she thinks you might be jealous or can’t handle seeing or knowing she has sex with someone other than you. So she is saying these things ( which may or not be true) to test your reaction . To find out how you may react if she were to go as along with being shared
If you really want to share her, you’re going to have to be careful how you respond now
Good luck!

Without a picture I could not say if I would try or not.
Yes there are some good guys out there but in bed with a woman you do not know very well. I believe I would try first a little touching pulling her hair see how far I can push her. All women can be turn on to the point of no return. In the right Situation
I have told my wife just do not tell me because I could never watch someone fuck her I am not build they way.

As someone who’s been in similar shoes. She’s cheating, lying and does not want you involved to ruin her fun.

I would guess that the one that stayed behind the extra time after the cruise had gotten together on, and possibly before, the cruise. The one that flew back home was the “odd one out” and left the others. Their fun continued another night and the next day. By doing things together after getting back home, they are probably continuing to play. Your wife is feeding you small bits at a time to gauge your reaction. Next time she goes out with “the group”, try initiating sex with her when she gets home before she has a chance to shower and clean up. That should give you some idea as to whether she is fooling around.

I am not a cruise person, but I am fairly sure that "the two guys who were just taking them to the port" couldn't get on the ship without reservations.
There are too many oddities in the story.
But, as has been said before, cheating is doing something you wouldn't do with your spouse watching.

It is possible, had high school reunion years back a girl I had known from school and still spoke to her . We agreed to share a room for the night . Afterv5he reunion we went back to the room her in a leopard pants suit nightie, me in my underwear . We went to sleep , she tells a friend I didn’t even try anything dumbass me should have fucked her brains out but I was being a gentlemen ! A dumb one

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