Do wives really do sharing after or during menapause

Just a general questin, do wives really do sharing or have sex during and after they go thru the change?

Yes, but everyone is different. Don't pressure your wife enjoy her. We have been married over thirty years and swingers over twenty. We have been fortunate enough to live out most all our fantasies. We have enjoyed many resorts clubs and parties over the years but as we have gotten older we are just as happy to participate and go to the venues as we are to actually engage in a sexual act. Age sucks!!! It is what it is. Get over it and enjoy.

Mines 64 and still fucking other men.

Yep...I ride my mount as often as I can.

My wife started her extra marital activities when she was 30 and never stopped. She is 70 now and attracts men of a wide age range without difficulty. If anything she is probably more active than she was at the start as her confidence has grown over the years. No emails.

My now 63 year old wife had slowed down after the change. But saw a doctor and is doing hormone replacement therapy. She get 2 pellets one in each ass cheek every 3 months. It’s made a big difference in her.

We began inviting others into our sex life essentially our entire relationship. Two friends during different time spans between 1998- 2007. Both on multiple occasions.

From Jan. 2015-Oct 2024 we attended private BDSM/ fetish parties a few times a year that were hosted by a couple that we met late 2013. Most of the scenes that we setup ourselves or were invited to participate in were limited to sensation play, impact play, masturbation and forced orgasm but we also had our fair share of of oral sex and full sex scenes with other guests.

Late 2023 my wife began having early symptoms of menopause @ 48 years old. Now she close to 51 and still has symptoms including hot flashes and a slightly lower libido but her pussy still gets extremely wet. She had a very high sex drive prior to the symptoms so now @ 50 years old she has the drive of a woman in her late 30’s. On average, we have sex 2 times per week and she still throws in random and spontaneous blowjobs. She also admits to masturbating at least once a week.

The big thing that changed was her outlook on the parties.
We both agreed that they were becoming too much work but there was more that played into on her end. She no longer had the interest to play in larger groups that the parties provided. Now she has shifted back to the craving for more relaxed, personal and passionate play sessions. I’m confident that menopause has played a part in that decision.

Spring 2024 we invited our friend Steve to join us. We had 4 or 5 encounters with him that were limited to masturbation and oral sex. My wife fully offered herself to him 1 time before we ended the play sessions in Feb 2025. July 2025 we invited Doug to join us for a MFM threesome. Our most recent play session with him was on Oct 10th.

My wife is 68 and still very interested in sex with me and sex with others. She still masturbates some as well. She went through the change over 15 years ago, but earlier this year had a hysterectomy and pelvic restoration. That along with the estrogen cream has really elevated her hornyness.

Just keep telling your wife how sexy she is and keep your desire for her hot. That will go a long way in keeping things hot for her.

When we first got together about 25+ years ago the wife had very little experience with sex. So we played with men and a few couples for about 5 years. She fucked about 15 different men during those years. Then she said she had enough and she went about 20 years without playing with anyone else.
Now that she’s 60, she decided she wanted to join me when I get with other men. Which I have been doing with her knowledge. Just recently she helped me give a double bj to a friend of mine, and I think the next time we have him over, she will probably be fucking him.

Wow I was blessed, wife never slowed down, at 75 she was still hot looked 40 still loving hard dicks!

Yes they do , can’t speak for all however couples we know

We use to have threesomes with other men years ago but those good times have dried up. I'm trying to think of a way to bring that excitement back into our sex life. Sensual massage from another talented man used to do the trick.

An ex loved going down on women so much she did so on a menstruating play partner and came up for air with a red face. I was a little embarrassed for her but she was smiling and apparently loved it all the same.

---

Add a Message

			Only registered users may post messages. Registration is free and easy. Click Here and then click "Register".
Username:
Password: