When a woman drops a lot of weight

Is it even polite to comment? Ignore the issue, or say she looks great? I'm talking to the point I didn't recognize a lady I've known for 30 years. I was tongue tied, not a peep out of me.

How does she look?

Well it's winter, her face really shows it and she's a pretty lady. Her ass is half size and who knows what happened to her tits, she was beyond ample even when younger.

This is probably not the best site to get lessons on how to treat a lady, but I noticed and was in a don't know what to do situation.

Play dumb. Don't say something like, Looks like you lost a ton of weight. She is obviously proud that she has worked hard to look better, but would not appreciate you mentioning that she has dropped a lot of fat. Still she would love to be complimented.

Tell her she looks fantastic. Say, I don't know what you did, but whatever it is, keep it up, it's working. Let her know she looks great without mentioning fat or weight. Believe it, she wants people to notice and tell her how great she looks. Never mind political correctness. You won't get slapped or have sexual harassment charges filed against you...lol. She will love it.

So I work with a woman that has a great friendly personality,
And beautiful features. She has been working very hard and recently lost about 40 pounds. And now she looks really great to boot . Id like to compliment her on the success of her hard work.
Nothing more, I have no interest in any type of relationship. And I think she would appreciate the compliment but
In this crazy world of corporate rules a simple compliment taken the wrong way could get u fired. So I just keep my mouth shut

Don’t say much, let the lady do the talking and just appear to be interested in what she has to say

Just speak Italian to her. Say “monjaro” which means good day.

You are still an ahole Roy.

“This is probably not the best site to get lessons on how to treat a lady”

Lol

But seriously, it’s probably good that you at least said nothing instead of something that could cause you to be in an uncomfortable situation. Also, there is always a chance that the reason for the weight change was a bad medical condition. Fact is you don’t know for sure. Keep it safe till you have more info.

A woman dropping a lot of weight is usually looking for a new man. Could be a medical issue, but not usually the case. She either just got divorced or is planning her exit. Sorry. Just a fact.

My exwife got a boob job at my expense and moved on. I told her she didn't need it. Little did I know that she was planning to leave.

I notice that when a person loses a lot of weight very quickly the skin does not have enough time to tighten up so there is a lot of flab showing....

My hot wife lost over 2 lbs in just two months. It is true that her abdominal skin is taking a minute to catch up but her tight shorts and tops look great.

I think a woman that has lost weight should be complimented. She’s obviously doing it for a reason. Who cares what she looks like underneath. She’s gonna be healthier inside.

I knew a woman that dropped easily 100 pounds, got in great shape, had nip and tuck to tighten up loose skin. She looked stunning and was lively and energetic. Then she died suddenly from pancreatic cancer. Life can be cruel.

Suicide mission….

Misty has lost 150 from when I met her. 5o lost over ten years and 100 this last year. She needed a major surgery. She had the surgery couple months ago and worked very hard to take off the pounds. Even though half or more of her azz is gone and I like bbws. It is better for her health. She likes the compliments and she feels better. Her ta ta, s didn't shrink.

Maybe say,,,I have some respect for people that can drop a few pounds. I have tried to lose a few but always lose 5 and gain 5 .she will then tell you all about it.

You look great it’s been a while never hurt nobody…

But she prolly looking or cheating they lose weight they really put it in the market. That Wegovy and Mounjaro worse on marriages than snap chat and life 360 lol…if she was single and lost it for her to feeel better about her and you didn’t say anything you just missed an opportunity lol

Which a cheater is a cheater anyway lack of options doesn’t equal faithful.

Getting down to date weight. Always happens then they blow up again.

Many such dramatic weight loss cases lately and it's not a coincidence... I'm not a fan of the ozempic look.

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