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I知 so excited!
| By peater on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 9:01 am: |
About two years ago my wife said she wanted to stop being shared. This morning I was showing her a concert that we could go to out of town. She said that would be fun and we could go to the swingers club while there. Wow my cock got so hard.
I just had to share this with someone.
| By enjoyaunatural on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 9:14 am: |
So the trick is I need to get my wife to go to a concert? I wish I had learned this sooner.
It's a hard No from my wife
The trick is to get her out of town, the further the better. Then that hard No may surprise you and become "why not, nobody knows us here".
| By enjoyaunatural on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 10:05 am: |
Philly. We travel a lot. Unfortunately it hasn't made a difference with her. Still a very hard No.
| By bonefang2 on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 10:32 am: |
enjoy, Key West Fantasy Fest, hotel pool after midnight. Or, talk her into an "adult only" Cruise and get her to party a little. Nothing sexual in mind. Let her have her own little mind party. Look into local non-sex lifestyle meet and greets at locations where she doesn't feel like she's a prime steak for the choosing. They often do brew pub takeovers where you're free to leave anytime.
| By bonefang2 on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 10:34 am: |
And remind her that if you run into someone you know.... they're there for the same reason so no one is outing anyone.
| By bonefang2 on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 10:38 am: |
And ftr, we're not in the lifestyle. We have considered it a couple times through the years but always thought intimate couples groups to be more to our liking instead of clubs. It almost happened once but cold feet and all.
| By m1229 on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 4:16 pm: |
go slow
what concert?
tell us about her.
| By mdtdybare on Saturday, December 6, 2025 - 10:33 pm: |
It does not sound like she is looking to be shared. It sounds like she is looking to play on her own terms.
One thing I might add about sharing or not sharing. If a wife like natural's (@10:05am) doesn't want to be shared then maybe it's a good thing. That means she's happy with her sex life and doesn't want or need anyone else.
My wife and I swapped with another couple several years ago. Afterwards, she told me she doesn't want to do it again and doesn't need anyone else. I was disappointed at first. Now I think, I make her happy and that's all she wants. We enjoy exploring our sexual fun together.