Torn between enjoying watching and jealousy

The times we have brought a guy into our relationship I have loved watching her pleasure him yet sometimes when we discuss it I get a little jealous. Doesn't seem to make sense.

The big head is thinking more than the little head? Maybe you're worried about the outcome. A lot of things can happen when you share her. A lot of things, good and bad. You hope nothing goes wrong or worse, she devolops feelings for her lover (big head thinking). Once the event occurs, you're more focused on what she's doing and not worrying as much about the outcome (little head thinking).

Be careful what you wish for perhaps?

at it for a lot of yrs here and what Rodrey says

is spot on careful what you wish for.Just never

know where a dal like this can go to


Ask me and I can sure tell you first hand, even

after all the yrs of sharing. and it all being good

and then it went sideways

emails welcome

Thanks It is so hot watching. "Big Head" has to trust

I always had mixed emotions but the turn-on prevailed. We are now 80, married 55 years, and my memories are the source of my masturbation.

I have known quite a few women who could very easily walk away from their husbands/bf's with very little effort and no remorse. And many did. Some of these men thought their relationship's were on rock solid ground. Allowing the woman in your life, the woman you love, to have sex with other guys is asking to possibly lose her.

Of course there are many wives/gf's who wouldn't leave their man for anything in the world. But if your wife/gf is one of those who could walk away with only the slightest encouragement, it probably is just a matter of time.

I have had sex with a guesstimated 15 married women, probably a lot more. The vast majority of them, I didn't know were married at the time and stopped when I found out. There are far too many available, single women out there to be fooling around with a married one and maybe ruin some guys life.

Three of the married women I was with, was with their husbands knowledge and consent. One husband was the friend of a friend. My friend told me his friend had no interest in sex with his wife at all. He wasn't gay, he just had zero sex drive.

I met the other 2 married women through this guy's wife. Both had husband's with medical issues and both husbands were on board with their wives having discrete sex with others. None of the 3 husbands were interested in watching or hearing any details. All 3 loved their wives and didn't want to lose them. They just couldn't perform.

One of the these three married ladies (the first one), and a couple of the other 12 or so married ladies let me know that they were very interested in me and would have no problem leaving their husbands for me. I was young and horny 24/7. I was not interested in breaking up someones marriage.

So, like someone else in this thread said, be careful what you wish for. There are plenty of men out there who believe their wives love them with every fiber in their souls, who would walk away from their husbands at the drop of a hat. If you let your wife have sex with a guy who is better looking, better in bed, richer, etc, she MIGHT decide the grass is greener elsewhere.

My wife had one regular for a while. She said he was the best lover she ever had. Id sit and watch them for hours. I was very hurt and jealous but that totally turned me on. As they were fucking they would passionately make out. They even told each other the loved each other

Kik dsunflower691

Mine didn’t leave me for the sex she left me for the money just after maxing out all of me credit cards. I miss her pussy but not her

As far as a stable relationship goes, you can't keep what you don't have to begin with.

A piece of advice, if your relationship isn't solid, and you don't see this activity as an extension of you as a couple, then I wouldn't get into the LS.

I have seen way too much drama from couples where the partners have different agendas.

Moreover, you need to have rules. Yes, they will get broken, we certainly broke some of ours, but its good to have a strong understanding going in.

Lastly, communication is key. Again, if you can't talk openly about feelings, both good and bad, your experience in the LS will be rocky.

Its not a journey everyone can or should undertake. Its a lot of work. It drives some couples apart and others it brings them closer.

Good luck everyone!

In my experience and opinion, a monogamous relationship is destined to die sexually. The thrill and desire to meet new people is what makes single life so exciting. The security of a relationship / marriage offers the benefits of a life partner in all of life's challenges. Unfortunately, monogamy also destroys the excitement of sex and makes it a mundane task. Being in a relationship with an open acceptance of sex outside the marriage keeps the sex alive and fresh. It is the mix of jealousy and voyeurism that makes sharing a woman so hot and popular. Email welcome

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