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Post Prostate Cancer
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Post Prostate Cancer
I had prostate cancer several years ago and as a result of prostate surgery have succumbed to several side effects. My flaccid penis has become approximately 3 inches shorter and I am impotent as a result.
With that said you can still have a dry orgasm without seminal discharge as the prostate has been removed. Or in my case a dry orgasm while my penis is flaccid through manuel stimulation.
Any other having similar experiences and how are you adapting.
Better to be floppy and alive than stiff but dead is my thinking after I went through exactly what you had done. It's the only way to look at it.
| By rbfd on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 6:31 am: |
I lost an inch can get fairly hard but takes time. My biggest problem is bladder control and couldn't be happier with the problems and being able to say I've cancer free.
I was treated with proton radiation in early 2017. I lost an inch of length I think mainly due to the chemo/hormone part of the treatment. I still get hard (not like before) but my orgasms are mainly dry due to the irradiated prostate. I also seem to orgasm much more quickly. So far my PSA is good. Always get a bit nervous when it’s time to get checked but so far so good. Happy to be healthy!
| By bonefang2 on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 7:37 am: |
You guys keep on keeping on. You're all conquerors. The man is within.
| By in28s on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 9:02 am: |
I am 1 year post surgery. So far so good that cancer has stayed away. No issues with bladder control. Like others lost some size. Also the wood is not the way it used to be. But it seems to be getting better. On daily Cialis and pump weekly. It doesn't seem to bother my partner- I can still please her.
| By michjim on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 11:00 am: |
I have the same problems no erection, shorter dick. Relief from masterbation but no cum.
Wife needs a good hard dick so we still look for COUPLES.
Great to be alive but very frustrating too
| By bcva on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 11:04 am: |
I didn't have cancer in prostate but it became so large I couldn't urinate without a catheter. Urologist did a Heliop procedure and now urinate normal. But no erections or evacuation. Grateful no catheter. I also have had 2 colon cancer surgeries currently cancer free.
| By ddrive510 on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 11:51 am: |
Almost all men lose length with age. I just happened to be watching Dr Oz show when a man called in and asked if losing length was normal. Dr Qz said that it was.
| By jtmurphy48 on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 12:56 pm: |
Better to be on this side of the grass for sure. No cancer here, but seminal vesicle issue so loads are virtually non-existent and erections are what they were. Psa is barely register-able as the vesicles are choking it.Gets discouraging. But my tongue works and the wife is happy.
| By robertrkb on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 1:00 pm: |
i had bladder cancer large prostate im 75 trouble getting hard n staying hard i eat gf lot n use dildos when she sucks or i jerk off very little cum its getting tuff but at least im real good at going down
Ive been reading alot about peptides lately I wonder if that might help.
Get an implant most women don’t know it’s there. Most like it even better cause you can pound it or they can ride till they exhausted
| By pitstop2 on Friday, December 12, 2025 - 9:30 pm: |
to all with prostate problems , stay away from anything with carrageenan in it, such as most ice creams , pudding cups, pre mixed chocolate milk, do the search for more info
I’m happy the cancer is gone and PSA is almost undetectable. My issues is I have trouble using public restrooms. Due to shrinking I sometimes hit the pants instead of the urinal. Only incontanence I have is while sleeping but perfectly fine during the day. Sex has changed drastically with the wife but we adapt.
| By pmbrad on Monday, December 15, 2025 - 4:07 pm: |
Had prostatectomy and penis is shorter but the surgeon saved the nerves and I still get hard. No semen but orgasms are intense.
| By jimsdesires on Tuesday, December 16, 2025 - 8:23 am: |
Thanks all for sharing your story
| By kentuckian1 on Tuesday, December 16, 2025 - 12:47 pm: |
pmbrad, (4:07 pm), I had a prostatectomy Nerve sparing prostate surgery. lost an 1.5, and don't get as hard as i used to. More girth than i used to have. No semen, orgasms are very intense. wife can feel me when i cum.