Suprise reaction watching wife

Has anyone gotten jealous or had a surprising reaction to seeing another man having your wife?

If you get jealous it should never happen...

But you wouldn’t know until it happened.

I am overcome with emotions while sharing my man. That is why I do it. To watch him is incredibly luscious. But the feelings that come with it are overcoming. From a bit of uncertainty, to a mix of apprehension and then anger. Crushing loss of self esteem and doubt - what if I am not good enough? Moves on to eroticism, a feeling of lust and being so overcome with desire. I often describe it as a whirlwind of emotions that reach an apex after when I make him mine again.

I would think that
Men would feel the same.

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"But you wouldn’t know until it happened."

Exactly!

Typically the reality never matches the fantasy. Men get jealous (so do woman). Lots of guilt and regret. It usually doesn't turn out like you were hoping and I've seen it ruin marriages more times than not.

It takes a unique couple to pull it off. The marriage is not the same afterwards. Do you really want to roll the dice with your spouse??

Thanks for the input, exactly why I put the question forward to get men and women’s experiences.

Also, I’ve had a lot of men proposition her without prompting so I was wondering if wife sharing is more common than I thought.

My wife and I started dating when she was a junior in college. She was also seeing a football player at the time. I knew about him and honestly I never thought our relationship would go much further. It did however and we have been married almost 40 years! We became very sexually active a few years after we married and enjoyed a variety of meetings and encounters with other couples and singles. She would often mention how nice he was and how much fun they had together. Long story but I encouraged her to contact him and see if he’d be interested in a reunion of sorts. She did, and we arranged a weekend to meet. It evolved into an intimate encounter which I was able to be present. Two very strong emotions arose. First, extreme jealousy seeing her being pleasured sexually by an old flame. Second, extreme love for her knowing she was reliving a fond memory of her college days. They will always share a special bond but they went different directions after college. He was a really nice guy that I liked but seeing them together wasn’t the easiest thing I’ve experienced. I think your relationship has to be rock solid to share. We’ve had numerous encounters over the years with others but it had not always been easy. Just our experience.

Actually it is not common. A common fantasy that guys like to talk about on sites like this, but when push comes to shove most avoid it. If nothing else the wife puts a screeching halt to it in most cases.

Honestly I never had a jealous moment sharing the wives, it was pure excitement and extremely stimulating.

No i loved watching my wife with another man im hooked on watching and now she wont uggh so fustrating

Most of my wife's encounters were out of town on business trips so I was never there. When I knew she was with someone I was anxious, unsettled, envious, but also turned on. The turn-on always exceeded the anxieties so I wanted her to do it again.

I think a lot of wife sharing talk and stories are just fantasies. Several reasons. The fear of guilt, regret, safety, and of course the fear the wife will develop feelings for her new lover. So, it's easier and safer to just fantasize about it.

I shared my wife once and it was in a couple swap. It was the worst thing we ever did in our marriage. Why? My wife didn't have a good time. I felt guilty for that because I thought the other husband would be a better lover. He was a complete dud. Don't ever think just because a guy is married he knows how to make love to a woman. Also, we had unprotected sex with this couple and that worried us to the point we both went and got tested for STDs. Fortuantely, all tests were normal. So, there are a lot of feelings AND fears one can have and not just the obivious feelings.

Interesting topic....

I appreciate topics as such. Thought provoking and honest answers.
The emotions drive me to accept his pillow talk about it. As far as when I have invited another woman to our bed. She was known and highly vetted - screened. There was an attraction so to speak chemistry and trust between us. Long long before the invite was opened up.
It’s only happened 7 times in our 17 years together. So it’s not like we are “HO’s” hahaha

I can see why there is worry after. I have and he has noted a sense of guilt. But we understand it’s natural and just roll.

Of course I was jealous. For some fucked up reason that's part of the turn on. Ive watched my wife with men way bigger and better than me. Watching them passionately having sex. I get upset but absolutely love it
Kik dsunflower691

We’ve been sharing for about 10 years. Never really had any issues. We enjoy watching each other being pleasured. Probably the worst thing that happened was recently. Poor guy just couldn’t get hard.

Shame your email does not work jphenor@yahoo

I have a fantasy of seeing my wife shared. I've seen her flashing buddies and get felt up by them. Those memories are burned into my memory and I've done lots of jerking to those times. So I think I'd be ok watching her in action too.

I found the old green eyed monster paid a visit when the two of them were kissing and being closely intimate. Where as watching them have marvellous sex was very exciting.......as often stated it is a mixed cocktail of emotions and you must be ready to handle anything that transpires.

I wasn’t ever and then I heard one tell her he thought he could love her and I was about to be pissed and she stopped it and sent him to his own wife and told me to come over…his last time playing and his wife was pissed pissed…. He said he was role playing but no one believed it but yep I was jealous….she has been jealous on occasions of a woman made me cum faster than her lol.
But there have been times we’ve argued over me spending time with a particular girl at parties she asked was I too familiar or just comfortable and I just hadn’t noticed I was. Once it became a problem we slowed way way down we still go to the parties and all we just don’t play as much.

I’ve seen couples that can really let the flag fly but then I see some here I believe just make up what thei wished had happened. But it’s all about what yall want as a couple but I will be honest and tell anyone the relationship is never the same it changes it some for the good some not….just the way it was for me

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