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By scottdale on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 5:59 pm:

Just curious what everyone's experiences have been if you've come across a person, man or woman who did not want to receive oral. If so did they say why? Of course I'm not talking about those who may have had some sort of trauma in their life I would never expect someone to want to do something like that or receive oral if there was some trauma attached to it.

I was with a woman who never had oral and never wanted oral. To her it was disgusting that a man would go down on her. Now maybe she was lying and there was something else involved there.

Any men here who don't like receiving oral?

By horndawg69 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:01 pm:

My wife claims that one of her boyfriends did not want her to go down on her. I believe he is the only man who ever existed who refused a BJ. Hell, a bad BJ is WAY better than no BJ.

By eznow4512 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:10 pm:

I had one FWB that only wanted to do "missionary sex". I got a couple licks of her sweet pussy and she freaked out, only wanted cock/cum in her pussy!

By johnsue6768 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:35 pm:

WEll interesting subject. I dated a girl back in the day that I was crazy about but she would in no way suck my cock and I loved eating her to many orgasms. Sadly it led to our break up at that time. Still think of that when I see her.

By bertie69 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:36 pm:

I had a f*** buddy once who only liked oral and didn't want penetrative sex so who was I to argue I used to make her come three four or even five times. Loved it

By scottdale on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:39 pm:

Bertie I would actually love to find a situation like that. I don't need the penetration but absolutely love giving and receiving oral. Heck at this point I'd be happy to keep my clothes on and just give her all the whole time

By bertie69 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:41 pm:

Doesn't your lady like that?

By scottdale on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 6:42 pm:

No she doesn't let me give her oral at all never has and never will

By dialedin200 on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 7:07 pm:

I have never met a woman that didn’t like oral.

By etenncpl on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 8:44 pm:

over twenty years ago, I met and became involved with a woman, wh her and her husband had been active in lifestyle for several years. First time with her, ( husband not around), I started down on her, she stopped me, " she didn't really like that , never enjoyed it, I absolutely love doing oral on womaen, so was abit of turn off. She would suck but didnt want to finish me either.
well, I was having problems getting hard, and she reluctantly allowed me a good taste of her. a few minutes later we had intercourse. After ward she admitted having orgasm "like never before" and next time we got together she asked if I would do that again,, I did, and may many more times. we eventually went different ways, and didnt speak for about ten years, I called her finally, just to talk, her husband had passed a pl years prior. about two minutes into our conversation, she asked,, when you going to come see me and eat this p**sy again ! yep, she had adapted to liking it

By etenncpl on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 8:44 pm:

over twenty years ago, I met and became involved with a woman, wh her and her husband had been active in lifestyle for several years. First time with her, ( husband not around), I started down on her, she stopped me, " she didn't really like that , never enjoyed it, I absolutely love doing oral on womaen, so was abit of turn off. She would suck but didnt want to finish me either.
well, I was having problems getting hard, and she reluctantly allowed me a good taste of her. a few minutes later we had intercourse. After ward she admitted having orgasm "like never before" and next time we got together she asked if I would do that again,, I did, and may many more times. we eventually went different ways, and didnt speak for about ten years, I called her finally, just to talk, her husband had passed a pl years prior. about two minutes into our conversation, she asked,, when you going to come see me and eat this p**sy again ! yep, she had adapted to liking it

By fatbuthappy on Tuesday, January 20, 2026 - 10:04 pm:

13 years ago current wife refused any attempt at oral on my part. Loved sucking me but would not let me do her. 2 weeks into our relationship I convinced her that let me tie her up.. then I went crazy on her pussy.. an hour later she had completely change her mind!!

Now it’s at least once a day and usually 3 or 4 times. !!

By rat_patrol on Wednesday, January 21, 2026 - 7:31 am:

I love oral, getting and giving. And I’ve never met a woman that didn’t want her pussy snacked on.

By idleswell on Wednesday, January 21, 2026 - 11:24 am:

My wife was deathly afraid of oral sex. She was terrified of climaxing "that way." She was sure if she committed "sexual sin" would have to confess (to her eternal embarassment). This partly explains why she is now my ex-wife.

By maninbham on Wednesday, January 21, 2026 - 11:57 am:

My wife is one who doesn't enjoy receiving oral. Now inversely she gives me BJs almost daily. I realize how spoiled I am. I cannot imagine being with a woman who wouldn't give and enjoy BJs. Glad I married a pleaser.
Now she knows my desire to eat her and she has let me on occasion particularly few nights ago during an hour and half session after a night of drinking. I licked her for a few minutes but then got cut off, and later after she finally orgasmed I went down for a few licks to taste her and she tasted so good. She is self conscious about smelling and tasting fresh even though I reassure her that she smells and tastes good and that it's a massive turn on. One time for a special treat she climbed on top and let me eat her while she sucked me off. My God that was so hot.
Be glad some of your women like to be eaten. It's a blessing!

By mrb1960 on Wednesday, January 21, 2026 - 12:55 pm:

I've only met one woman who didn't like having oral sex performed on her. On the other hand, I know several women who do not want to suck cock. To each her/his own, but oral, giving and receiving is a prerequisite; no oral, she is not for me.

By abacus100 on Thursday, January 22, 2026 - 9:18 am:

A girlfriend a few years ago really didn’t like oral on her. The first time I made to go down there she stopped me and said “I am not a fan of that”. I thought Yahtzee’s she was kidding so I said “well I am a big fan of it” I really thought she was joking but she was completely serious.
Strange thing was she has ready blown me and continued to do so. I asked why she wasn’t a fan and she just said it was unclean. So after a few weeks I told her we were incompatible (there were other things ) and I moved on.
Honestly couldn’t be with a woman who doesn’t like oral on her because I love it.
Have had the pleasure of over 40 women in my life and this was the only one who said no to cunnilingus.

By niceoldgoat on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 2:10 pm:

My wife doesn’t like oral she has never touched my cock orally but let me lick her.I loved it buddy she wouldn’t let me do it long.
I really desire to have my dick sucked but so far no go

By ddrive510 on Monday, January 26, 2026 - 6:24 pm:

I dated one woman after my divorce that absolutely would not allow me to go down on her. She gave great BJ’s .

My current wife had sex with 5 boyfriends before we went on our first date.

That night on my living room carpet naked making out. I was kneeling working on a boob and started kissing down towards her navel and she said don’t do that please. I looked up and told her to give me two minutes and if she wanted me to stop I would.

Needless to say probably 10 minutes later she had her first orgasm. It was amazing to watch her completely tense up and enjoy it.

The next night, this time in my bed, I did the same thing and after a short cool down she started to go down on me. But first she said I’ve never done this before so I probably won’t be very good. When I got close she stopped. Wasn’t going that far.

By maturecoupleoh on Wednesday, January 28, 2026 - 5:43 pm:

As long as she is shaved I love eating my wife out. She loves sucking my cock also and occasionally swallows.

By hung_texan on Friday, January 30, 2026 - 1:25 pm:

It's in many ways an acquired taste... my ex told me for years if I had to eat pussy I have a hallpass but eventually she let me and removed the hallpass as she couldn't have sex without getting licked after she got hooked... nothing like feeling like you're in a leg lock around your head as she pulls you closer and closer to get all she can... though she never was into bjs and those who later in life gave me one some were really like a vaccuum and others were more gentle and swallowed it all... can't complain either way


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