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Why not BWC?
| By scottdale on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 11:31 am: |
This is just a question I thought of because everyone seems to talk about BBC. I get it but there's also BWC. Is it easier to find BBC then bwc? Is it also to enjoy the white on black or black on white experience? I mean I get that because I've been with a black bbw and it was absolutely fantastic. So this is not a race thing. But I never hear anyone saying oh I crave bwc.
As someone who would love to see my wife take BBC (and would like to try it myself too), for me it’s a couple of different things.
The stereotype of a big black endowed man I think is just planted in people’s minds. Fair or not, possibly racist or not, I think that is at least a subconscious appeal.
There’s a novelty to it. We’re a white couple in a mostly white area with mostly white friends and coworkers. That is not intentional, it just is.
There’s also a taboo component to it. She’s never been with a black man and given our fairly sequestered existence, a black man would be more “raw” and unlike us to do that. Her being shared would come as a shock to anyone who knows us, but it being a black man would ratchet up that shock even more.
For me watching her in such a scenario, visually the contrast of a black man with my pale white wife, is an exciting mental picture.
I’m not necessarily proud of the above answers, but they are the honest truth. Neither of us are racist in any way, but a lack of exposure to the black community might have some subconscious planting of stereotypes that are unfair.
| By woodyd46 on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 12:10 pm: |
It's just a matter of......"In Living Color".
| By scottdale on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 12:13 pm: |
Beggin I think that's a very fair answer. I understand what you mean. I don't think anything you're saying is racist at all. And I think it's also just like you said the allure of being with another race. Whether it's Asian or African or Indian or anything that's different from yourself there's definitely that curiosity
| By horndawg69 on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 12:19 pm: |
Does it exist?? I have seen a lot of WL post stating BBC but all I see is BC (which wouldn't be any different than all the lil white cocks I see, except that someone colored it black). But then again, I have seen a lot of post stating hung or big cock, and it looks like a normal cock to me. I guess it's "enlargement" syndrome, similar to "shrinkage" syndrome (that's when people request chubby women and hubs will post a lot bigger woman).
Scottdale 12:13, thank you.
You bring up other races, but for myself at least, I have no desire to see my wife or experience myself, other races. It’s not any issue against them, they just don’t have that same allure as a black man.
My fantasies are BBC first, BWC a distant second, and any other race or ethnicity is not really on the radar.
Maybe I am the exception, I don’t know, but that’s how I’m wired.
| By jackthestripper on Saturday, January 24, 2026 - 1:25 pm: |
Both wives preferred white guys and cock size was not an issue.
Sad to say, in my experience, I have met lots of white men that think of black men as sub human so their wife being with them was like she was slumming it.
Oddly enough, I knew an actual KKK member that was into his wife having sex with minorities
His wife looked like the good wife next door when you first saw her.
She would develop a friendship with a person of color, actually date them and get close to them.
It was not until you had sex with her that you would notice she KKK brand tattooed on her ankle, odd experience to say the least.
In their case, the man was obviously conflicted but he was into being cucked by a person of color, even though he felt them to be sub human.
Some white guys enjoy the humiliation factor of it.
Of course that does not apply to all white guys that share or the white cucks but over the decades I have met many where it did apply.
Search "Wife wants a big cock porn." The majority what you'll see will be a black guy. People think black guys all have big cocks and all white guys have the average cocks.
In the early 70's, I went to a high school where the majority were black. My neighborhood was majority black. These black guys were always hitting on the white girls without much success. I asked a black friend of mine why they were doing that. He said, "If I'm with a white girl I will look like a king." I've never forgotten that statement. Maybe finding a black cock is easier because white women are a status symbol to a black guy. Maybe white women have guilt and are easier to f&ck.
| By atxbim on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 9:40 am: |
My wife back before we were married was in an experimental phase when I asked her who she wanted to fuck. She said she always wanted to fuck a black guy. So I found one and lined it up and got to watch this black cock fuck her for an hour or so in many different positions. At the end he was fucking her missionary, pulled out, tore off his condom, and left a nice load on her belly. Without thinking, I immediately went to her and cleaned the load off her belly. My first ever taste of cum.
Later that night I asked her how that black cock was. She simply replied, a dick is a dick.
| By biformmf on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 2:57 pm: |
This is a very interesting topic with so many potential nuances.
An abundance of Cuck porn features white women enjoying sex with black men (often but not always including an aspect of humiliation of the white husband) and indeed it seems that interracial partnering/marriage of white women with black men is more common then in the past. It doesn't appear that porn featuring white men/black women or interracial partnering/marrying among black women is as popular.
In the cuck porn example, could this be interpreted as racist....black men are being used for the sexual pleasure they provide white women and sexual entertainment they provide white couples? Maybe.
Could an alternative explanation, relative to interracial partnering in particular, be that this is an example of evolving misandry toward white men? Are white women are just seeking other partnering options relative to cultural influences that suggest white men are part of a tyrannical patriarchy and oppressive towards women in general, and women have had enough? Perhaps.
I know I find white women demonstrating their "raw" sexuality a huge turn on, whether with white men, black men, or women or groups. Their doing so with black men, in particular, amps up the demonstration of that "rawness" because of it's going somewhat "against the grain" culturally speaking. That said, it is becoming so commonplace in porn, it's losing its novelty. Quickly.
@biformmf, great contribution, some interesting points to consider
| By couplex123 on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 8:13 pm: |
I think a lot of the reason is that white men do not want black women. Look at all people who make it big. You see black men married to white women. Meanwhile when white men make it big they pick white women. Also some men who are into BBC for there wife have a gay side. Just ask beggin4pegging
couplex123 8:13, I think anyone into sharing their wife might have a little bi in them, whether they realize it or not. There has to be a certain level of appreciation for the other man's dick.
Some of us just able to not lie to ourselves about how much.
| By mdtdybare on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 11:26 pm: |
biformmf makes the point that the quest for BBC is bad, worse or worst.
Stop and look at each suggestion and you will notice
| By biformmf on Monday, January 26, 2026 - 1:52 pm: |
Hmm mdteddy. My intent wasn't to frame BBC as negative, nor is my opinion that it is negative.
Past fem partners of mine and I have participated in MFM with black men and have played in group settings with black couples (as I have mentioned in other posts). All have been amazing experiences with sexy, sensual people.
I just find it fascinating to explore the cultural nuances and their underpinnings.