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She didn’t shut it down-
We’re both in our late 40s now, and we actually met back in college. To be honest, neither of us has really pushed ourselves beyond our comfort zones over the years. Back in my 20s, she used to tease me about certain things—curiosities that have now piqued my interest—but I wasn't ready to explore them back then wasn’t mature or secure enough. Looking back, I realize my hesitation probably made her hold back too.
Fast forward to the last few years, and I've started to bring up this idea of seeing my wife with a Black man. Each time, she would gently brush it off. I never pressed her on it; I just mentioned it here and there in a casual, honest way. She often looked at me like I was a bit out there, but she never got upset or offended.
Then, a few weeks ago, something shifted. For the first time, she didn’t completely shut down the idea. In fact, she suggested that we could talk more about it this summer. While it’s not a commitment, it’s definitely not a flat-out no either. I know we still have a long way to go before anything happens, but honestly, it feels like we’re making some real progress.
| By quietman01 on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 2:08 pm: |
Sounds very promising. Please keep us posted on any news and developments
Thanks quietman01 will do-
| By hotkat60 on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 2:35 pm: |
Lovely wife Mr Poken, I agree it is very exciting to think about, she definitely has the assets to attract a very sexy Black man! Great story!
Mr Hotkat
Thanks hotkat-
| By kinkyn440 on Sunday, January 25, 2026 - 11:26 pm: |
She's already got one in mind and she's probably already doing it
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you man!
I agree with Kinkyn440. She already has one in mind. She just want till summer to make it happen.
pokencouple. I'll make it easy for you. I'll show up at your place as any cosplay..repairman, delivery, salesman, census taker, Jehovahs witness
| By jason1060 on Tuesday, January 27, 2026 - 12:18 pm: |
I have tried with my wife a few times but don’t want to push it, the last time she said she was open to maybe once a month meeting a guy. She has got more open the older we get but having read other peoples views on the subject it either happens or not.
Jason1060, her being willing to meet with a guy once a month is HUGE! Have you tried to help set something up?
| By jason1060 on Tuesday, January 27, 2026 - 2:01 pm: |
Extremestephen she was open and it was not a definite, if I push too much I’m not sure she will