becoming a shared wife

Whose idea was it for your wife be shared with other men? How did you feel the first time your wife had sex with another man in front of you? How did the wife feel the first time she had sex with another man in front of her husband?

Both very long stories but the short of it is:

My first time sharing my first wife was back when she was still my girlfriend. Very surreal experience, completely unplanned after a party at my buddy's house while we were watching a porn video.

With my second current wife, it's something we talked about when we were dating. She is asian and had only been in the country for a couple of months. She was open to the idea but very nervous when things started to play out a couple of times. Ultimately a friend of mine and I planned things out and didn't tell her to the last minute so she wouldn't get worked up and nervous and that too was a very amazing experience.

My idea with both wives. First wife was an easy sell and second wife took almost a year to warm up to the idea. Second wife also needed to develop a relationship first. Our first mfm was in our bed and she was quite comfortable in front of me while I was beyond excited. We took turns doing her and it lasted all night until the wee hours of the morning.

My idea and took some doing to get to say yes. Then when it happended she helt my hand untill he got all of him in her then she oh why did we wait so lone?

Long story......

My idea.
I felt slightly jealous but far more turned on.
I asked. She said it was "different". A few weeks later she asked, since our son was spending the weekend with her parents, should we ask "J" to visit again on Friday night?
I took that as she liked it.

It was her idea to be shared.
Together after discussing, we developed the idea of whom she should be shared.
It was better to accept the idea rather than her turning to cheating. So I allowed and supported her.
First feel was a mix of jealousy and excitement. My wife was sleeping with someone stranger.
She enjoyed it too.
I am available for calls over teams and Google chat. I share the details about her adventures.

I convinced her. Unfortunately, her first and only guy was a dud. He had a bigger cock, but had no idea how to please a woman. After a few thrusts, he ended up cumming on her belly. She layed there with a WTF on her face not even close to an orgasm. Afterwards, she told me never again. This was several years ago.

Last week, I was emailing a guy and things sounded like something could be planned. I told my wife, showed her his photo, and she said she'd think about it. Three days passed and she never said anything. When I asked her she said 'No." Then she something that made me feel good. "I'm happy with our sex life and enjoy you fucking me. I don't need or want anyone else."

Our first time was a misunderstanding.
We had agreed on same room, same partner meets with other couples and even some soft play shared with them, but no penetration. We went to a local meet a greet and had far too much to drink and ended up taking home a guy about 30 years younger than us.
We played around a bit, then I rolled the condom on him and she rode him till he came, then he got dressed and went home. Overall, he was a total dud, not into much foreplay and didn't really do much of anything to her before she rode him.
The next day, I found her crying and she told me she felt dirty, like she had sex with her own son and she vowed never again.
It took me ten years of bringing it up occasionally before she finally agreed to work on finding a guy for a long term relationship,

With both wives it was my idea.
1972 married to first wife. I was 20 she was 19.

Played a lot of golf with my HS friend and we hung out with them frequently. While playing we talked about the fact that wife swapping was now a big story. We talked about trying it out and Rog said he knew Marti would go for it but I told him I doubted that Cheryl would do it. We both asked and I was surprised that Cheryl said okay the first time I asked.

We swapped several times with Rog and Marti and a couple more times with another couple.

After we divorced I did several MFM with Rog and Marti and even spent on night with Marti when I went to visit and Rog was gone for the night.

Second wife, Jean, we visited Rog and Marti all the time. They lived a couple blocks away from us. Jean and I watched porn on an 8mm films. She had very interesting fantasies while I did oral on her and when I asked what she was getting off on she always told me.

One night after we got home from visiting Rog and Marti I was pumping away and told her that Rog would love some of what she was giving me. She asked how I knew that I told her he had said so when we were golfing. Also told her my ex and I had swapped with them. Short conversation later she said it sounded like fun invite them over next weekend. I did she enjoyed it and started a 20 year run of occasional activity.

It happened due to alochol, good smoke and her caring about a good friend, long story.

anichols41 we have time. Just saying...

My idea.
She wanted it like almost all women but needed to know she could have it without any bad repercussions. She loved it

My idea and she of course said no initially. Over a course of a year she warmed up to the idea and finally did it.

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