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By mrskin75 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 7:17 am:

Are couples in their early 60’s excepted at swinger parties or groups, or is that considered to old by other participants?

By mrskin75 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 7:26 am:

Sorry, didn’t spell check myself .
It should be “are they accepted”
I don’t have enough coffee in me this morning.

By jeff0741 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 7:53 am:

Depending upon the club (assuming you are looking at clubs) you most likely will find couples of all ages there with the "sweetspot" in 40's - 50's. I wouldn't worry about age being the limiting factor. More on attitude/personality - an introvert will have a more difficult time.

By mrskin75 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 7:57 am:

Thanks Jeff for the information

By poshswingers on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 8:04 am:

For the most part part they are very much accepting. However like all parties and venues they tend to attract different crowds. An example using some popular venues in Florida would be that Caliente and Paradise Lakes tend to attract an older more mature crowd than say does Secrets Hideaway. As one would suspect marketing and pricing are big factors.
If I could make a suggestion to a couple your age I could confidently say Desire Pearl. While expensive it is very upscale with a seductive atmosphere. Absolutely a no pressure venue that is very accepting to all.

By mrskin75 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 8:35 am:

Thanks Posh for the information.

By product1010 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 12:31 pm:

At 70 plus both of us still active

By samandkim2020 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 12:35 pm:

You need to find a click or group that fits you and your likes/needs.

Not always easy but it is possible.

Good luck!

By tnmtnman on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 2:35 pm:

I was accepted. At a club with no problem i was around 70. It might be because of my griend with me she eas 38 and the life of yhe party

By ompos457 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 3:47 pm:

I'm 73...wife 59...both still having fun with others..

By mrskin75 on Saturday, January 31, 2026 - 9:37 pm:

Thank you to everyone for the great information.

By delcouple1 on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 11:47 am:

Older couples are more than welcoming in swinger groups. We currently are playing with a couple in their mid 60s.They one of our favorites. WE found that older couples who play are in great shape and more experienced.


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