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By delcouple1 on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 11:54 am:

Have any couples had bad experiences when swinging or when the wife was shared with a single man? if so, what were they?

By scjohnny on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 12:09 pm:

Yes, her husband, who arranged our meeting, came home early and very drunk. It was awful, I never contacted ever again.

By jackthestripper on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 12:19 pm:

Wife was shared a bunch of times and I can’t think of a bad experience. There was the one time she was dirty dancing with a guy at the club and people were staring and laughing so I looked and her tampon string was exposed, as soon as I told her we made a quick exit :-)

By donnieburke on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 12:31 pm:

yea more than a few times if you do this stuff

long enough its gonna happen

just part of it,

been at it for a lot of yrs and can tell you it does

emails welcome

By biformmf on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 2:49 pm:

Ditto that sentiment donnie. Absolute worst was a (an no one with working eyesight would disagree) totally unattractive couple with an overly aggressive guy and a bossy woman.

They couldn't understand and became nasty and demanding when GF and I politely declined taking the meeting any further.

By lsflower69 on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 2:50 pm:

I guess we're lucky. Never had a really bad experience.

By living_south on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 3:53 pm:

A few back when we were doing meet-ups, one tried to invite another friend, had one that said his wife was into full swap and she got jealous when everyone started playing she was actually just into same room-same partners, her husband wanted the swap… she saw him touch my wife and bout lost her mind…had single guys try to look her up and jump in her dm’s trying to arrange his own meet-ups she wasn’t bout that at all!

By sunset77 on Tuesday, February 3, 2026 - 8:55 pm:

We found that some guys with big dicks are just that. Big dicks.

By texasforlife on Wednesday, February 4, 2026 - 6:16 am:

We swapped with a couple once. It was the first and only time we swapped. The first encounter, we swapped in the same room. The guy had my wife on all fours and he came very quick. The second time, we decided to try seperate rooms. The guy just rammed his fat cock into my wife's tight pussy. He had issues getting it in because he didn't take the time to get her wet. After a few short thrusts, he pulled out and shot his load on my wife's belly. Later that night, my wife said she never wanted to swap again. And we haven't.

By texasforlife on Wednesday, February 4, 2026 - 6:17 am:

I might add, the other husband had a bigger and fatter cock than me. What sunset77 said is true, at least for us.

By delcouple1 on Wednesday, February 4, 2026 - 3:30 pm:

My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for over 11 years and have had little bad experience because we screen a couple a lot before moving to full swap. We do some make out sessions and a lot of soft sex before we moving forward.

One bad experience I can remember was when a guy tried to pull his condom off while doing her. I had the same thing with the wife. She wanted me to take off my condom off and when I refused she wouldn't do me anymore. We have a strict rule which we tell couples when we first meet. Condoms are a must.

Another times my wife had a problem with an overendowed guy. He seemed fine until it was time for full swap. He kept bragging how my wife was fortunate to have such a well-hung guy and how she was going to really get stretched. At first she paid little attention to his boasting because she wanted to try his big cock since most of the men she met are not much bigger than me. As soon as he got on top, with little foreplay, he just rammed it in her and it hurt like hell. she pushed him off and I came in the room and got him off the bed. His wife couldn't see what the matter was because she said other couples they played with the woman loved his roughness and big cock. Not my wife. They put their clothes on and left.

Couple of times the guys went soft or finished before she was.

WE now only play with a few couple we know real well and have had no problems. We liked over couples like in their 60s. The guys are real gentlemen and the ladies love to please.

By sevnthhvncpl on Friday, February 6, 2026 - 4:48 pm:

We were swingers and hotwife participants for 20 years until recently (wife no longer interested). Some of our negative experiences include:
** Playing with the wife of a couple whose pussy smelled and tasted horrible.
** My wife getting a mouth infection after being with the husband of a couple who was uncut and had poor hygiene.
** A single guy we played with in our travels got done fucking my wife and without saying a word immediately took a shower in the bathroom of our hotel room. Just bad form!
** Another single guy we played with got too emotionally attached to me wife, saying he loved her...and then wouldn't leave her alone when she said she was no longer interested.

Thankfully our many, many positive experiences far outweighed these negative ones.

By product1010 on Friday, February 6, 2026 - 8:02 pm:

Yes, wife did some decorating for a single guy who had 9.5 inch fat dick she kept him extra happy for years! And her too!


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