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By bobdobolina2 on Sunday, June 11, 2023 - 4:14 am:

I’m blessed to “manage or coordinate” a group of hotwives, vixens, subs, and Doms, Daddys, and Stags that all like to gather in a sexually charged atmosphere. We get together monthly or so with some smaller gatherings happening organically on the side in between as our ladies needs arise. The main parties usually have 8-10 women in attendance (we have a max limit of 10 ladies for now) and around 20+/- active* guys. We try to keep the ratio between 2:1 and 3:1, m:f, as it seems our women are insatiable and prefer more than one cock at a time. (*some husbands don’t play with others so we don’t “count” then in the ratio) Some women are selective, some women want to take on all, it is really UP TO THE WOMAN. It is 100% a female pleasure driven party, male pleasure definitely occurs but is fully considered a secondary byproduct. This is truly HER fantasy fulfillment time, all of the men in THE Group are ready to play their role and meet HER desires as well as RESPECT her limits.

We gather in the lobby of a nice hotel for a happy hour from 7pm-8pm approximately. Then around 8pm the ladies go up to the suite and slip into something sexy and have a little girl time to prep, discuss the night ahead, and honestly bond over the fun about to be had and support each others desires. We do not have catty bitchy mean girls in this group, it’s not tolerated, it’s not well received. There are women with classic barbie doll bodies, there are women with milfy post baby bodies, there are beautiful curves and tummies, big tits and asses to little a cups and apple bottoms, porcelain fair skin, freckles to tan, (we do need some chocolate sisters though… where you at AA sisters!)… it is a place where beauty come through in personality, passion, lust, and confidence. You are simply celebrated for being there and being raw and real and unguarded and kind. We’ve had a couple negative attitude girls try and fit in but no one bites and they show themselves the door, its not the vibe here… it’s all love and support… not some toxic positivity bs, but real genuine acceptance.

When ready, one of the gals will contact me and I’ll usher up all the men. We take our time to appreciate your sexiness, have a discussion about each females hopes and desires for the evening. We systematically go through each gals list for the night. We talk about condom preferences, handling/sexual preferences, goals for the evening, soft and hard limits, etc… it’s is very thorough and a safe environment.

I remind everyone that this is a place for gentlemen, that despite a lot of flesh being available consent is still required… “No, Stop, I need a break” and derivatives of those terms will be honored . Green, Yellow, Red are used (though with us, Red means “stop now i need a break and I’ll tell you my needs” and not “I’m done for the night”) SAFEWORD is word used to tap you out for the night and get immediate aftercare if desired, we use that because EVERYONE knows exactly what it means. (*CNC play is not on the table at the main events, you must seek that out individually, but it can be discussed and accomplished)

Then once the female desires debrief is over, most men will start undressing and moving toward someone they connected with during the happy hour, some spouses will start with their own partner, some will sit back and let her roam free, but at this point it generally flows on its own. The parties seem to naturally last from 8:30-11:30/12ish and then most people need a break. Some folks pack up and go home, some folks go out and have a cocktail or two.

Lately the parties have been very intense and the go out for cocktails scene has been light to nonexistent if i’m being honest. Most folks are worn out… so, i’d give it a 50/50 shot of happening.

And that is how it has been for the last 2 years! :-)

Next parties are on 7/8, 8/26, 9/30, 11/4 and 12/9

*for women very aroused by this scenario, but intimidated by the size of our monthly party…. Please reach out. Many of our now regular group members began with a smaller more curated experience that gave them a taste of group play, created some familiar faces for when they did attend a monthly party, and is a nice way to ease into a really fun and safely organized scene. Also… if you want a smaller setting, but wouldn’t mind a gal pal to join there are several women keen to joining a smaller setting if it still feels like a big step alone.

single men, find your instructions and follow to a T on my fetlife profile.

https://fetlife.com/users/12057784

By nomad920 on Tuesday, June 13, 2023 - 6:22 pm:

Sounds like a good group. We'll done

By bobdobolina2 on Friday, June 16, 2023 - 12:41 pm:

kik bobdobolina2, email rarely checked

By marks2499 on Monday, June 19, 2023 - 5:55 am:

Witch part of the state???

By bobdobolina2 on Wednesday, July 5, 2023 - 12:48 pm:

southern WI and very much WORTH the drive.


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