the break needed to get her to play

This is about the night that changed my wife’s mind. I’d been asking her for a long time about swinging/sharing. We’d fantasize in bed and she’d get very hot when I used a big dildo on her. She would talk about it but didn’t want to; her big objection was that she didn’t think she could just get intimate (have sex) with a stranger, and she definitely did not want to get involved with anyone we knew, or anyone local.
So, after several small tries, I got her to a swing party. This was not like many people think of a swing party– it was really just a big party where everyone was at least aware of the chances, but NOT a big orgy or wild naked behaviour etc. Just lots of partying, dancing, flirting, etc.
She loves to dance, so pretty soon guys were asking her, and as the night went on one guy was sticking with her and they danced every dance. The later it got, the more slow songs they played. It got to where the 2 of them just stayed on the dance floor between songs. I noticed they were really dancing tightly together and I know/assume usually that guys love that feeling of her thin and quite tight body against them. First hot addition was seeing his hand under her blouse. I thought surely that soon she’d remove his hand or even get angry-- but she didn’t.
That got me very hot, knowing his hand was rubbing around on her bare skin. I know I brag on her a lot but she has the SOFTEST skin I’ve ever felt. She’s had other women that touch her (casually not sexually) even comment on it! So I know he loved that feeling. That went on a long time and obviously his hands were all over so I know he had to feel her flat tits and big nipples and that her nipples were swelling. She is very flat but has VERY sensitive and rather big nipples.
I knew then that this was special…this was the big step I had wanted for so long... I was so hot sitting there watching.
It kept getting hotter, with one hand under her blouse and the other moved to her ass. I had not noticed at first because she was facing towards me as they danced, but they turned and he was rubbing right on her ass which shocked me (I swear, if she and I were at a regular club and I put my hand on her ass “in public” she’d quickly remove it!) Then he actually got his hand UNDER her skirt- the skirt was lifted up above her panties- which both exposed her panties and had his hand right on top of her panties and then slipping inside them!
I mean he was just rubbing hard and obviously trying to get his fingers down into her crack.
At some point, I went outside to get a beer and to try to stay calm. To my surprise, the guy soon came outside, too, but to ask me if I was OK. I think he or she had seen me walk out and was afraid I was upset. I said it was quite OK and I thought it was hot. Interestingly, he asked me if he could kiss her, and I started laughing, and said “dude, you are feeling her up and rubbing her ass, obviously it’s OK with me for you to do ANYTHING she is willing.” And I stressed ANYTHING…and saw his eyes go up. It got him more excited. I told him “honest, anything and as far as she’s willing to go, I’m very cool with it.” He quickly went back inside.
By the time I went in a minute or two later, they were on the dance floor again, his hands in the same position, and they were KISSING. Hardly dancing at all, just basically standing there making out. THEN—I saw at one point that HER tongue was clearly out and in HIS mouth. That told me clearly that she was into it and very excited. (In Japan, people were normally NOT good kissers, did NOT often French kiss etc. until some nice foreigner like me taught them LOL).
I actually had a freak-out moment. To explain—long before that night, when she and I first really seriously discussed sharing, she had once said “I bet if I ever really did have sex with another man, you’d be the one to get upset, YOU would realize you were wrong and you would be the one to want to stop it.” Of course I had replied no no no—that it might be odd to me in some ways but that I really, really wanted it.
Well, turns out she was right. When I realized that she was that hot for him, and that he could literally take her to a back room at that point and do anything to her, I did panic. I broke out into a sweat, even…I was VERY close to walking over to them and saying “stop—I can’t take this—I don’t really want another man inside her!”
But—timing is everything! Just as I was debating what to do (because, I knew if I did stop her, she’d NEVER play again and she’d remind me that she had predicted that, all along), his wife came in from another area of the party (I think she’d been in a “woman’s only” area). She spoke to him briefly, he spoke to my wife, and then he and his wife left. My wife stood on the dance floor easily 2-3 minutes just looking shocked. She finally walked back over and told me that they had to leave due to babysitting arrangements.
On the drive home I first mentioned something like “You were really excited, did you think you might have fucked him?” she said NO and denied being so excited and said it was just some hot dancing nothing more. I was disappointed that she wouldn’t admit it, but I didn’t believe her. Then once in bed, I reached down to feel that her panties were SOAKING wet and I mean front, back and sides…she had been “juicing up” for a long time to produce that much wetness. I put her hand down on her panties and said “feel yourself….feel how wet you are…clearly your body was preparing to be fucked.” And she finally admitted it!
From that night she let me find a guy and I did...but that’s another chapter.

Thank you keeping your story short and to the point. Most women will deny they have erotic thoughts. As your wife said, they're afraid they will hurt you or you'll get mad. Hopefully, this all works out for you and you've already set up some rules.

I’m hard….

That's so awesome and a great story. My wife is the EXACT same way. She'll dance sluttily with guys and make out with them, then she'd coyly deny everything that happened, or say it was just 'nothing'.

During the day, she doesn't like to talk about what she did with the guys, so I stopped bugging her about what she did with them.

When she finally did start sharing herself, she'd still downplay everything that happened, but the next time she had some wine, I'd bring up the night and she'd spill the beans - she usually didn't go into much detail, but a few times she had super hot studs who were over-performers and asked if I would mind if she saw them again, which I always said 'yes' to.

She did tell me about a time she had an MFM with 2 male strippers in their Condo in Miami and wow that was the hottest story she told me, albeit a week after she returned home from that work trip.

Of the 24 dudes she's fucked so far, all asked for her number afterwards and she'd give it to them, but she'd just ignore their pleas to hook up again because she didn't want to risk getting 'involved' with them, which I appreciated even though she started to 'catch' feelings for one of them who she'd seen a few more times after their first night of fucking. She didn't tell me about when she saw him after that a few times, which I actually thought was pretty hot. She later apologized, tho.

She asked if she could 'see' 3 of the 24, and wow she did. One was a young local guy from Vegas who picked her up in a casino. She spent a 3 day weekend with him, then he fucked her again the next 2 times she went to Vegas (one was with me). She told me he fucked her about 20 times during all 3 visits. Another one was a dude who she told me could just fuck and fuck for hours, was in absolutely perfect shape, and she told me he had 'no idea' how special of a talent he was. She spent a about 4 more nights at his place the next couple of months until he started dating an unattached girl. She called him the energizer bunny guy.

Thanks for the story and looking forward to your next one!

kftnnc, great, well written account of you and your wife's beginning to explore the possibilities of sharing her with another man. As we all know, the dynamics between any two people are very different and I find the details of your adventures quite interesting in their similarities and differences to our own. And, of course, thank you for sharing that lovely photo of your wife's flat chest with her beautiful nipples standing out like pencil erasers! I can only imagine how sensitive they must be! And, as always, I'm looking forward to hearing MORE of your adventures and exploration on your journey toward her becoming a shared wife! Cheers, mate!

thanks for sharing your story and showing the beauty of your bride

sounds as if she will bring you great joy for ages to come.

Again, thank you.

My wife and I fantasized for years about having another guy join in with us. She always got super hot but afterwards would say we couldnt really do it because I would end up getting jealous. We had some heart to heart talks out of the bedroom in the light of day that convinced her I was seriously excited about watching her with other guys. It was never really about whether she could do a stranger, the thought excited her, she was more worried about my reaction.
When we finally allowed ourselves to be in a position to share her it was intense. I’ve told the story several times here so I’ll condense it. We met a nice black guy at a club and retired to a private room. As the door closed he embraced her and started gently kissing. She was incredibly nervous about my reaction. I took a seat and smiled at her and started rubbing my already hard cock to show my approval. She turned back and passionately kissed him while he ran his hands all over her body. It didn’t take but about 2 minutes until she slid down to her knees, peeled off the towel he was wearing and started sucking and licking his big black cock and balls.
It was amazing watching them suck and fuck for the next half hour in all kinds of positions. When he was ready she got back on her knees and sucked him until he blew his load across her neck and breasts. It was an incredible thing to watch and never did I feel any jealousy, only excitement.

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